4 min - Understanding pronouns builds respect: Teaching children the right pronouns helps them communicate clearly and be inclusive.
- Step-by-step teaching works best: Start with basic pronouns (he, she, it), move to neutral pronouns (they), and then introduce gender identity pronouns in advanced lessons.
- Interactive activities reinforce learning: Games, role-plays, and visual aids like pronouns charts make practicing gender pronouns fun and effective.
Imagine an ESL classroom where a student says, “My brother, she is very tall.” The whole class giggles, but this small mix-up shows just how tricky pronouns can be. Getting “he,” “she,” or “they” right is more than grammar, it’s about clear communication and respect.
So, what are gender pronouns, and why do they matter? In English, pronouns connect to both grammar and identity. From traditional choices like he and she to inclusive options like they, knowing how to use them helps students navigate conversations, workplaces, and global communities.
This guide will explore what gender pronouns are, why they’re important, and ways teachers can help ESL students use them with confidence. We’ll also talk about how Novakid teachers make lessons respectful, inclusive, and easy to understand.
What Are Gender Pronouns?
At the simplest level, a gender pronoun is the word we use in place of someone’s name when talking about them. In English, the most common pronouns are he and she, while they is often used as a gender-neutral option or to discuss two or more people. In recent years, you may also see other forms, such as ze or xe.
So why do different gender pronouns matter? As you would likely think they just represent grammar rules on a page, it’s much more than that; they represent identity, respect, and clear communication. Using the right pronoun helps ESL learners build language skills while also showing awareness of modern conversations and inclusivity.
Gender Pronouns List and Meanings
As we’ve seen, pronouns are a key part of identity. The most common ones in English are he, she, and they, but in recent years, more pronouns have been introduced to give people choices that fit who they are. This is important in modern classrooms, where students may come across different gender pronouns and need to understand their meanings.
| Pronoun | Meaning & Use |
| He/Him | Masculine, singular |
| She/Her | Feminine, singular |
| They/Them | Gender-neutral, singular & plural |
| Ze/Hir | Nonbinary or gender-inclusive alternative |
This kind of gender pronouns chart makes it easier for ESL students to see how different pronouns work. While he, she, and they are the most common, it’s helpful to explain that some people use other pronouns to reflect their gender identity.
How Do You Teach Gender Identity Pronouns in ESL?
Understanding what pronouns mean is one thing, but real progress happens when children start using them in conversation. At Novakid, teachers know how to make this learning step clear, age-appropriate, and supportive. Parents can feel confident that lessons are designed to help kids build both their English skills and their awareness of respect.
Novakid teachers usually start with gender specific pronouns like he, she, and it in beginner lessons. Once students are comfortable, they move on to plural and neutral options, like they. Later on in more advanced lessons, children can be introduced to gender identity pronouns such as ze or xe.
To make this easier, teachers use visuals like flashcards or a gender pronouns chart. Role plays, short stories, and classroom dialogues give students natural opportunities to practice.
How Do You Teach Gender Pronouns Respectfully?
Respect is just as important as grammar. Novakid teachers recognize that cultural views differ from country to country, so they introduce the topic with sensitivity. Children are encouraged to ask, not assume; for example, by learning simple questions like, “What pronouns do you use?” Classroom activities often include introductions where each child shares their name and pronouns, creating an environment where kindness and confidence grow together!
Gender Pronouns Explained Simply – Teacher’s Quick Reference
What are gender pronouns?: Gender pronouns are the words we use instead of someone’s name. Common examples are:
He/Him – masculine, singular
She/Her – feminine, singular
They/Them – gender-neutral, singular & plural
Ze/Hir – nonbinary or gender-inclusive alternative
Quick Tips for Teachers and Parents:
- Beginner Level: Start with he, she, and it. Use visuals like flashcards or a pronouns chart. Keep sentences short and clear.
- Intermediate/Advanced Level: Introduce they as singular, then other gender identity pronouns like ze/hir. Use role plays, dialogues, and short stories for real-life practice.
- Respect & Inclusivity: Always encourage asking, not assuming. Practice phrases like, “What pronouns do you use?” Create a safe, supportive environment where children feel comfortable sharing their pronouns.
Fun ESL Classroom Activities for Pronouns
Once students understand what pronouns mean, the next step is making practice fun. Teachers often turn grammar into games, so children stay engaged while learning. Parents will be glad to know that pronouns don’t just come from textbooks, but they’re practiced through activities that feel like play. Consider some of these activities:
- Pronoun Sorting Game : Using a gender pronouns list, students place pronouns into groups (he, she, they, etc.).
- Role-Play Introductions: Students imagine meeting at a party and practice introducing themselves with pronouns.
- Fill-in-the-Blank Worksheets: Simple sentences where kids choose the right pronoun to complete the thought.
- Pronoun Matching: Using a gender pronouns chart, students match pronouns with example sentences.
- Story-Building Game: Students create short character bios and decide which pronouns their character uses
Understanding and using gender specific pronouns correctly helps children gain confidence, communicate clearly, and respect others’ identities. At Novakid, experienced teachers guide children through these lessons in a fun and inclusive way, making learning meaningful and respectful for every student. Book a trial class today and see how your child can practice English and gender pronouns with a skilled teacher, gaining confidence while having fun.
