{"id":5760,"date":"2024-03-29T12:39:29","date_gmt":"2024-03-29T09:39:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/?p=5760"},"modified":"2024-04-03T12:47:08","modified_gmt":"2024-04-03T09:47:08","slug":"cocuklari-simartmanin-zararlari-nelerdir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/cocuklari-simartmanin-zararlari-nelerdir\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7ocuklar\u0131 \u015f\u0131martmak neden k\u00f6t\u00fcd\u00fcr? \u00c7ocuklara her istediklerini vermeli miyiz?"},"content":{"rendered":"  <section class=\"section blogHeader\" id=\"blogHeader-block_f203324c0103e745dd9e153a4bc5e69c\">\n      <div class=\"blogHeader__wrapper\">\n                              <div class=\"blogHeader__image\">\n              <a href=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/1024\u0445613_Is-it-bad-to-pamper-your-child_.png\" class=\"glightbox\">\n                <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/1024\u0445613_Is-it-bad-to-pamper-your-child_.png\" alt=\"\u00c7ocuklar\u0131 \u015f\u0131martmak neden k\u00f6t\u00fcd\u00fcr? \u00c7ocuklara her istediklerini vermeli miyiz?\" class=\"blogHeader__imageItem\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/1024\u0445613_Is-it-bad-to-pamper-your-child_-300x180.png 300w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/1024\u0445613_Is-it-bad-to-pamper-your-child_-768x460.png 768w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/1024\u0445613_Is-it-bad-to-pamper-your-child_.png 1024w\" style=\"width:100%; aspect-ratio:1024\/613;\"> \n              <\/a>\n          <\/div>\n          \n      <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n      <section class=\"blogContentTable\" data-toc-section>\n        <input type=\"checkbox\" id=\"blogTocToggle\" class=\"blogContentTable__toggle\" \/>\n        <label for=\"blogTocToggle\" class=\"blogContentTable__header\">\n            <span class=\"blogContentTable__heading\">\n                \u0130\u00e7indekiler            <\/span>\n            <span class=\"blogContentTable__arrow\"><\/span>\n        <\/label>\n        <div class=\"blogContentTable__wrapper\">\n            <div class=\"blogContentTable__heading blogContentTable__heading--sidebar\">\n                \u0130\u00e7indekiler            <\/div>\n            <ol class=\"blogContentTable__list\">\n                                    <li>\n                        <span class=\"toc-item\">\u015e\u0131martmak ne demektir?<\/span>\n                    <\/li>\n                                    <li>\n                        <span class=\"toc-item\">\u015e\u0131mar\u0131k yeti\u015fen \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131la\u015faca\u011f\u0131 sorunlar<\/span>\n                    <\/li>\n                                    <li>\n                        <span class=\"toc-item\">\u00c7ocuklara istediklerini nas\u0131l do\u011fru \u015fekilde verebiliriz?<\/span>\n                    <\/li>\n                                    <li>\n                        <span class=\"toc-item\">\u015e\u0131mar\u0131k yeti\u015fen \u00e7ocuklarla nas\u0131l ileti\u015fim kurulur?<\/span>\n                    <\/li>\n                                    <li>\n                        <span class=\"toc-item\">Novakid\u2019le tan\u0131\u015f\u0131n!<\/span>\n                    <\/li>\n                            <\/ol>\n        <\/div>\n    <\/section>\n\n    <script>\n        \/\/ Use DOMContentLoaded for faster TOC initialization\n        document.addEventListener('DOMContentLoaded', () => {\n            const tocSection = document.querySelector('[data-toc-section]');\n            if (!tocSection) return;\n\n            const headings = document.querySelectorAll('.blogHeadingText');\n            const tableContainer = tocSection.querySelector('.blogContentTable__list');\n            if (!tableContainer) return;\n\n            \/\/ Clear the container\n            tableContainer.innerHTML = '';\n\n            \/\/ Count valid headings with h2\n            let validHeadingsCount = 0;\n\n            \/\/ For each heading, create an item in the table of contents\n            headings.forEach((heading, index) => {\n                const h2 = heading.querySelector('h2');\n                if (!h2) return;\n\n                validHeadingsCount++;\n                const title = h2.textContent.trim();\n                const itemHtml = `<li><a href=\"#${heading.id}\">${title}<\/a><\/li>`;\n                tableContainer.innerHTML += itemHtml;\n            });\n\n            \/\/ Hide TOC if no valid headings found\n            if (validHeadingsCount === 0) {\n                tocSection.style.display = 'none';\n            }\n            \n            \/\/ Dispatch custom event to notify that TOC is ready\n            document.dispatchEvent(new CustomEvent('tocReady'));\n        });\n    <\/script>\n  \n\n\n  <section class=\"section blogText\" id=\"blogText-block_0293d12cd64fe776566086c94205edb5\">\n    <div class=\"blogText__wrapper\">\n        <div class=\"blogText__content\">\n            <p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/ebeveynler-disiplinli-cocuk-yetistirmek-icin-ne-yapmali\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Disiplin kavram\u0131n\u0131n<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ki\u015fisel geli\u015fiminde b\u00fcy\u00fck bir etkisi var. Ancak ebeveynler \u00e7ocuklara kar\u015f\u0131 disiplinli olmakla onlar\u0131 mutlu etmek aras\u0131nda bir denge kurmakta zorlanabilir.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocuklar \u00fczerinde a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 bask\u0131 kurmak onlar\u0131n psikolojik geli\u015fimini olumsuz y\u00f6nde etkileyebilir ancak bu, onlar\u0131n her istedi\u011fini yapman\u0131z gerekiyor anlam\u0131na gelmez.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yeti\u015fme \u00e7a\u011f\u0131ndan ge\u00e7en \u00e7ocuklar, kendileri i\u00e7in faydal\u0131 veya zararl\u0131 olan se\u00e7imleri ay\u0131rt etme konusunda iyi olmayabilirler. Bu noktada devreye girmesi gereken, onlara birtak\u0131m kurallar ve k\u0131s\u0131tlamalar koyma yetkisi olan ebeveynlerdir.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Buradan anl\u0131yoruz ki \u00e7ocuklar yeterince disiplinli yeti\u015fmez ve her istediklerini elde ederlerse, ba\u015fka bir deyi\u015fle \u015f\u0131mart\u0131l\u0131rlarsa bu durum olduk\u00e7a sa\u011fl\u0131ks\u0131z bir \u015fekilde sonu\u00e7lanabilir.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bu yaz\u0131da ise, ebeveynlerin s\u0131k s\u0131k merak etti\u011fi \u201c<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocuklar\u0131 \u015f\u0131martmak<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> m\u00fcmk\u00fcn m\u00fc?\u201d, \u201c\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n her \u015feyi elde edebileceklerine inanmas\u0131n\u0131n sonu\u00e7lar\u0131 nelerdir?\u201d, \u201c<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u015e\u0131mar\u0131k \u00e7ocuklarla<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> nas\u0131l ileti\u015fim kurulur?\u201d sorular\u0131n\u0131n cevaplar\u0131n\u0131 arayaca\u011f\u0131z.<\/span><\/p>\n        <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n\n  <section class=\"section blogImage\" id=\"blogImage-block_e1ac5f87232bf40277fafaf56a8665fb\">\n    <div class=\"blogImage__wrapper\" >\n        <div class=\"blogImage__image\">\n            <a href=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/simarik-cocuk-e1712137244643.jpg\" class=\"glightbox\">\n                <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/simarik-cocuk-e1712137244643.jpg\" alt=\"simarik-cocuk\" class=\"blogImage__imageItem blogImage__imageItem--noCrop\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/simarik-cocuk-e1712137244643-300x250.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/simarik-cocuk-e1712137244643-768x640.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/simarik-cocuk-e1712137244643.jpg 1024w\" >\n                <div class=\"glightbox__zoom\">\n                    <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/themes\/novakid\/public\/img\/icons\/search.svg\" alt=\"Zoom icon\" class=\"style-svg\">\n                <\/div>\n            <\/a>\n        <\/div>\n            <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n\n  <section class=\"section blogHeadingText\" id=\"blogHeadingText-block_154f6746b1bc52aa6677e5bfa05fee2c\">\n    <div class=\"blogHeadingText__wrapper\" >\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__heading\">\n            <h2 class=\"blogHeadingText__headingItem\" data-blog-heading data-section-id=\"blogHeadingText-block_154f6746b1bc52aa6677e5bfa05fee2c\">\n                \u015e\u0131martmak ne demektir?            <\/h2>\n        <\/div>\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__content\">\n            <p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u0130lk \u00f6nce \u015f\u0131martmak kavram\u0131yla tam olarak neyi kastetti\u011fimizi detayl\u0131ca a\u00e7\u0131klamam\u0131z gerekiyor. Bu konuyu daha iyi anlayabilmek i\u00e7in de \u201c<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n \u015f\u0131mar\u0131k<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> yeti\u015fmesi m\u00fcmk\u00fcn m\u00fc?\u201d, \u201cPedagoglar bu kavram\u0131 tan\u0131r m\u0131?\u201d, \u201c\u015e\u0131martmak ne demek?\u201d gibi kavramlara odaklanabiliriz.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ebeveynlerin <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00e7ocuklar\u0131 \u015f\u0131martmas\u0131<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, basit\u00e7e \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n her istediklerini elde edebileceklerini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmesine neden olacak bir bi\u00e7imde yeti\u015ftirmesidir. Bu karaktere sahip \u00e7ocuklar genelde ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n ki\u015fisel alanlar\u0131n\u0131 tan\u0131mazlar ve bencilli\u011fe daha yatk\u0131nlard\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocuk psikiyatristleri, bu kavram\u0131 incelerken s\u0131k s\u0131k ebeveynlerin tutumlar\u0131na dikkat \u00e7ekiyor. Kimi ebeveynler \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 disiplinci ve bask\u0131c\u0131 bir tav\u0131rla yeti\u015ftirmeyi tercih ederken kimileriyse daha \u00e7ocuklara daima istediklerini vermeye daha yak\u0131n oluyor. Uzmanlara g\u00f6re ise, bu yeti\u015ftirme bi\u00e7imlerinin ikisi de tam olarak do\u011fru de\u011fil.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n ebeveynleri taraf\u0131ndan mant\u0131kl\u0131 veya mant\u0131ks\u0131z her iste\u011finin kar\u015f\u0131lanmas\u0131, karakter geli\u015fimlerini olumsuz y\u00f6nde etkiler. \u00c7ocuklar her istediklerini elde edebileceklerini ke\u015ffetti\u011finde, aile d\u0131\u015f\u0131ndaki ya\u015fant\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n da bu \u015fekilde olmas\u0131n\u0131 beklerler. Bu da \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n sosyal ya\u015fant\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 k\u00f6t\u00fcye g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yaln\u0131zca her istedi\u011fini elde eden \u00e7ocuklar de\u011fil, a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 bask\u0131c\u0131 aile ortam\u0131nda yeti\u015fen \u00e7ocuklar da ailesine bir ba\u015fkald\u0131r\u0131 y\u00f6ntemi olarak \u015f\u0131mar\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 se\u00e7ebilirler. Bu konuda dengeyi sa\u011flamak, ebeveynlerin en temel g\u00f6revlerindendir.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Uzman e\u011fitmenlerin ve \u00e7ocuk psikiyatristlerin de ortak karar k\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00fczere, \u00e7ocuklara bask\u0131 olu\u015fturmak veya onlar\u0131 her anlamda serbest k\u0131lmak \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm de\u011fildir. Buna ba\u011fl\u0131 olarak izlenmesi gereken en temel yol, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/pozitif-disiplinle-cocuklarda-olumlu-davranis-gelistirme\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">pozitif disiplindir<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n        <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n\n  <section class=\"section blogHeadingText\" id=\"blogHeadingText-block_4eedffbd3921512aa7f9cb1bba7c0e60\">\n    <div class=\"blogHeadingText__wrapper\" >\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__heading\">\n            <h2 class=\"blogHeadingText__headingItem\" data-blog-heading data-section-id=\"blogHeadingText-block_4eedffbd3921512aa7f9cb1bba7c0e60\">\n                \u015e\u0131mar\u0131k yeti\u015fen \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131la\u015faca\u011f\u0131 sorunlar            <\/h2>\n        <\/div>\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__content\">\n            <p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bir <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00e7ocu\u011fun \u015f\u0131mar\u0131k<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> olmas\u0131n\u0131n sebepleri aras\u0131ndan en yayg\u0131n olan\u0131, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n her istediklerini elde edebileceklerini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmesidir. Bu nedenle, \u00e7ocuklara istedi\u011fi her \u015feyi sa\u011flamak konusunda \u0131srarc\u0131 olmaman\u0131z, sizin i\u00e7in en faydal\u0131s\u0131 olacakt\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Peki \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n her istedi\u011fine ula\u015fabilmesi, onlar\u0131n hayat kalitesini nas\u0131l etkiler? <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n \u015f\u0131mart\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131n<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> sonu\u00e7lar\u0131 nelerdir? Gelin, hep birlikte inceleyelim.<\/span><b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Memnuniyetsizlik<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ama\u00e7lar edinmek ve ba\u015far\u0131ya ula\u015fma \u00e7abas\u0131 insanlar\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck motivasyon kaynaklar\u0131ndan birisidir. Hedeflerini kolayca elde eden \u00e7ocuklar ise bu motivasyon ve ba\u015farma hissinden mahrum kal\u0131rlar.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bununla birlikte, istediklerine k\u0131sa s\u00fcrede ula\u015fabilmek hem \u00e7ocuklarda hem de yeti\u015fkinlerde uzun vadede bo\u015fluk hissi yarat\u0131r. Bu y\u00fczden \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 gelece\u011fe haz\u0131rlamak ve \u00e7ocuklardan arzular\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00e7abalamalar\u0131n\u0131 beklemek en do\u011frusudur.<\/span><b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Ger\u00e7ek\u00e7ilikten uzak olma<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ebeveynleri taraf\u0131ndan her ihtiyac\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131lanan \u00e7ocuklar, sosyal hayatlar\u0131nda da ayn\u0131 beklentiye girebilirler. Ancak, ne yaz\u0131k ki bu, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n \u00e7evresindeki di\u011fer insanlar ve arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n onlara ebeveynlerinin sa\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bu konfor alan\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flayaca\u011f\u0131 anlam\u0131na gelmez. Bu nedenle <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u015f\u0131mar\u0131k \u00e7ocuklar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, ger\u00e7ek d\u0131\u015f\u0131 beklentilere girmeye e\u011filimlidirler.<\/span><b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Ebeveynlere sayg\u0131 g\u00f6stermeme<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ebeveynlerin ki\u015fisel alanlar\u0131na ve kararlar\u0131na sayg\u0131 duymak, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n g\u00f6revlerinden birisidir. Ancak \u015f\u0131mar\u0131k bir bi\u00e7imde yeti\u015ftirilen \u00e7ocuklar \u201cHay\u0131r.\u201d cevab\u0131na pek de ald\u0131r\u0131\u015f etmezler. Bu nedenle \u015f\u0131mar\u0131kl\u0131k, ebeveynleri anlama \u00e7abas\u0131 ve sayg\u0131y\u0131 k\u00f6reltir.<\/span><b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u015e\u0131mar\u0131k karakter yap\u0131s\u0131, ayn\u0131 zamanda dolayl\u0131 yoldan ba\u015far\u0131y\u0131 da g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr. Bu karakter yap\u0131s\u0131na sahip \u00e7ocuklar, istedikleri her \u015feye rahat\u00e7a ula\u015fabileceklerini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fckten gelecekte ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olma gayretine akranlar\u0131 kadar sahip olmazlar.\u00a0<\/span><b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Ruhsal bozukluklar<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">B\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar\u0131n yan\u0131 s\u0131ra, \u015f\u0131mar\u0131kl\u0131k beraberinde birtak\u0131m ruhsal bozukluklar\u0131 da getirir. \u0130stedi\u011fi her \u015feye ula\u015fan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n memnuniyetsizli\u011fe daha yatk\u0131n oldu\u011funu biliyoruz. Ancak yine de belirli ko\u015fullarda istediklerine ula\u015famayan <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u015f\u0131mar\u0131k \u00e7ocuklar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> bu duruma a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 \u00f6fke, stres ve h\u00fcz\u00fcnle yakla\u015fabilirler.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n        <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n\n  <section class=\"section blogImage\" id=\"blogImage-block_598868050dfe6825c812592de8d3f179\">\n    <div class=\"blogImage__wrapper\" >\n        <div class=\"blogImage__image\">\n            <a href=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/ofkeli-ve-stresli-cocuk-e1712137318960.jpg\" class=\"glightbox\">\n                <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/ofkeli-ve-stresli-cocuk-e1712137318960.jpg\" alt=\"ofkeli-ve-stresli-cocuk\" class=\"blogImage__imageItem blogImage__imageItem--noCrop\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/ofkeli-ve-stresli-cocuk-e1712137318960-300x255.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/ofkeli-ve-stresli-cocuk-e1712137318960-768x653.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/ofkeli-ve-stresli-cocuk-e1712137318960.jpg 1024w\" >\n                <div class=\"glightbox__zoom\">\n                    <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/themes\/novakid\/public\/img\/icons\/search.svg\" alt=\"Zoom icon\" class=\"style-svg\">\n                <\/div>\n            <\/a>\n        <\/div>\n            <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n\n  <section class=\"section blogHeadingText\" id=\"blogHeadingText-block_099a75548eb24fc6963212402ea4d293\">\n    <div class=\"blogHeadingText__wrapper\" >\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__heading\">\n            <h2 class=\"blogHeadingText__headingItem\" data-blog-heading data-section-id=\"blogHeadingText-block_099a75548eb24fc6963212402ea4d293\">\n                \u00c7ocuklara istediklerini nas\u0131l do\u011fru \u015fekilde verebiliriz?            <\/h2>\n        <\/div>\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__content\">\n            <p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 \u015f\u0131mar\u0131k yeti\u015ftirmek<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> istemiyor olman\u0131z elbette onlara istedi\u011fi hi\u00e7bir \u015feyi sunmayacaks\u0131n\u0131z demek de de\u011fildir. Fakat bunu do\u011fru \u015fekilde yapmaya \u00f6zen g\u00f6stermek en \u00f6nemli nokta. Bu sebeple ebeveynler kendilerine \u201cPeki \u00e7ocuklara istediklerini nas\u0131l do\u011fru \u015fekilde veririz?\u201d diye soruyor olabilir. \u015eimdi, bu sorunun cevab\u0131n\u0131 birlikte inceleyelim.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bu durumda ilk ad\u0131m\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n isteklerini mant\u0131kl\u0131 ve mant\u0131ks\u0131z \u015feklinde de\u011ferlendirerek atman\u0131zda fayda var. \u00d6rne\u011fin, \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun b\u00fct\u00e7enizi a\u015fan bir oyuncak istemesi ger\u00e7ek\u00e7i bir beklenti de\u011fildir. Bu noktada geriye, \u00e7ocuklara bunu uygun bir dille a\u00e7\u0131klamak kal\u0131yor.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bununla birlikte, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n isteklerini aral\u0131kl\u0131 zamanlarla ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirmeyi deneyebilirsiniz. Bu demek oluyor ki her g\u00fcn i\u015ften d\u00f6nd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fczde onu bir oyuncakla \u00f6d\u00fcllendirmek yerine bunu haftada veya ayda bir keze indirmeniz \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 da mutlu edecektir.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Unutmayal\u0131m ki istediklerine belirli zamanlarda de\u011fil de her g\u00fcn ula\u015fan \u00e7ocuklar, zamanla bu durumun o kadar da heyecanl\u0131 bir durum olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcneceklerdir.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131za istediklerini vermeyi bir oyun ya da bir \u00f6d\u00fcl haline de getirebilirsiniz. \u00d6rnek davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n takdir edildi\u011fini g\u00f6ren \u00e7ocuklar ayn\u0131 zamanda olumlu bir karakter geli\u015fimi de sergilerler.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">B\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar\u0131 yaparken \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131za izledi\u011finiz yolun onlar i\u00e7in de en iyisi oldu\u011funu hissettirmelisiniz. Onlara bu durumu s\u0131k s\u0131k \u201cBunu yapmam\u0131z m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fil.\u201d gibi c\u00fcmlelerle izah etmeniz gerekir.<\/span><\/p>\n        <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n\n  <section class=\"section blogImage\" id=\"blogImage-block_39dbc62f4dcdf09761ec67e8db640409\">\n    <div class=\"blogImage__wrapper\" >\n        <div class=\"blogImage__image\">\n            <a href=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/aglayan-simarik-cocuk-e1712137365288.jpg\" class=\"glightbox\">\n                <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/aglayan-simarik-cocuk-e1712137365288.jpg\" alt=\"aglayan-simarik-cocuk\" class=\"blogImage__imageItem blogImage__imageItem--noCrop\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/aglayan-simarik-cocuk-e1712137365288-300x252.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/aglayan-simarik-cocuk-e1712137365288-768x646.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/aglayan-simarik-cocuk-e1712137365288.jpg 1024w\" >\n                <div class=\"glightbox__zoom\">\n                    <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/themes\/novakid\/public\/img\/icons\/search.svg\" alt=\"Zoom icon\" class=\"style-svg\">\n                <\/div>\n            <\/a>\n        <\/div>\n            <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n\n  <section class=\"section blogHeadingText\" id=\"blogHeadingText-block_44ff3327bac74f99fe7de7cd360ea32d\">\n    <div class=\"blogHeadingText__wrapper\" >\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__heading\">\n            <h2 class=\"blogHeadingText__headingItem\" data-blog-heading data-section-id=\"blogHeadingText-block_44ff3327bac74f99fe7de7cd360ea32d\">\n                \u015e\u0131mar\u0131k yeti\u015fen \u00e7ocuklarla nas\u0131l ileti\u015fim kurulur?            <\/h2>\n        <\/div>\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__content\">\n            <p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u015e\u0131mar\u0131k yeti\u015fen \u00e7ocuklarla do\u011fru ileti\u015fim kurmak ya da \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n \u015f\u0131mar\u0131k yeti\u015fmemesi i\u00e7in onlara bazen her \u015feyin yolunda gitmeyece\u011fini anlatmak gerekiyor.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bu alt ba\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n alt\u0131nda \u00e7ocuklara her \u015feyin istedikleri gibi olamayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 nas\u0131l anlat\u0131r\u0131z, onu inceleyelim.<\/span><b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>A\u00e7\u0131klay\u0131c\u0131 sebepler sunmak<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocuklarla ileti\u015fim kurarken do\u011frudan \u201cBunu yapamazs\u0131n.\u201d, \u201c\u0130zin vermiyorum.\u201d, \u201cBen \u00f6yle istiyorum.\u201d gibi net c\u00fcmleler kurmak ve sert bir tav\u0131r izlemek neredeyse hi\u00e7bir zaman i\u015fe yaramaz.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131zla konu\u015furken onlar\u0131n da bir birey oldu\u011funu kendinize hat\u0131rlatmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. \u0130\u015flerin yolunda gitmedi\u011fini g\u00f6ren \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n da bu nedenle mant\u0131kl\u0131 sebepler istemesi olduk\u00e7a do\u011fal.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Onlara istediklerini sunmayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z takdirde \u201cBunu yapamay\u0131z \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc\u2026\u201d, \u201cBu oyunca\u011fa hen\u00fcz param\u0131z yetmiyor fakat sonra alabiliriz.\u201d, \u201cBu istedi\u011fini ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirmemiz \u015fu anda m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fil.\u201d gibi daha a\u00e7\u0131klay\u0131c\u0131 bi\u00e7imde konu\u015fabilirsiniz.<\/span><b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Ger\u00e7ek\u00e7i \u00f6rnekler vermek<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Aile i\u00e7inde \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 ger\u00e7ek hayata haz\u0131rlamak da bu konuyla paralel olarak b\u00fcy\u00fck bir \u00f6nem ta\u015f\u0131yor. Onlara s\u0131k s\u0131k ger\u00e7ek hayatta i\u015flerin nas\u0131l gitti\u011fini hat\u0131rlatmak, beklentileri konusunda daha ger\u00e7ek\u00e7i tav\u0131rlar sergilemeleri gerekti\u011fini g\u00f6sterir.<\/span><b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Kurallar koymak<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocuklar\u0131 \u015f\u0131martmak<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> yerine izleyebilece\u011finiz yollardan biri ise onlara birtak\u0131m s\u0131n\u0131rlamalar getirmek. Onlara yukar\u0131da da bahsetti\u011fimiz gibi a\u00e7\u0131klay\u0131c\u0131 sebeplerle birlikte baz\u0131 kurallar koyman\u0131z, her \u015feyin daima istedikleri \u015fekilde olmayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 daha iyi anlamalar\u0131na yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur.<\/span><b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Ebeveyn-\u00e7ocuk ili\u015fkisini korumak<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Baz\u0131 ebeveynler \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na bir arkada\u015f gibi yakla\u015fmay\u0131 iyi bir yol olarak g\u00f6rebilir. Ancak \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n sizin kurallar\u0131n\u0131za sayg\u0131 duymas\u0131 i\u00e7in onlara bir yeti\u015fkin olarak onlardan daha mant\u0131kl\u0131 hareket edebilece\u011finizi hat\u0131rlatman\u0131z gerekir.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bunun yolu ise ebeveyn-\u00e7ocuk ili\u015fkisini korumaktan ge\u00e7iyor. Ancak unutmayal\u0131m ki bu, onlara kar\u015f\u0131 her zaman kat\u0131 ve mesafeli yakla\u015fman\u0131z gerekti\u011fi anlam\u0131na gelmez.<\/span><b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Duygusal yakla\u015fmamak<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocuklar kimi zaman a\u011flamak, \u00f6fkelenmek veya k\u00fcsmek gibi manip\u00fclasyon y\u00f6ntemlerini ebeveynlerine kar\u015f\u0131 g\u00f6sterebilirler. Ebeveynler ise bu gibi durumlarda duygusal yakla\u015f\u0131p teslim olmak yerine yukar\u0131daki \u00f6rneklere dayanarak makul tav\u0131rlar sergilemeye devam etmelidirler.<\/span><b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Sevgi dili kullanmak<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ebeveynlerinden gelen k\u0131s\u0131tlamalar ve kurallarla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fan \u00e7ocuklar, bu durumu anlamland\u0131rmakta g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fck \u00e7ekerler. Bu da \u00e7ocuklarla ebeveynler aras\u0131ndaki ili\u015fkiyi zedeleyebilir.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n \u015f\u0131mar\u0131k yeti\u015fmesinin<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u00f6n\u00fcne ge\u00e7erken onlara neden bu kurallar\u0131 koydu\u011funuzu a\u00e7\u0131klamak, sevildiklerini hat\u0131rlatmak ve bu kurallar\u0131n onlar\u0131n da iyili\u011fi i\u00e7in oldu\u011funu s\u00f6ylemek gerekiyor.<\/span><\/p>\n        <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n\n  <section class=\"section blogImage\" id=\"blogImage-block_27aba04aada908cfbcb80fb052bb5a75\">\n    <div class=\"blogImage__wrapper\" >\n        <div class=\"blogImage__image\">\n            <a href=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/simarik-cocuk-ve-ebeveynler-e1712137402297.jpg\" class=\"glightbox\">\n                <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/simarik-cocuk-ve-ebeveynler-e1712137402297.jpg\" alt=\"simarik-cocuk-ve-ebeveynler\" class=\"blogImage__imageItem blogImage__imageItem--noCrop\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/simarik-cocuk-ve-ebeveynler-e1712137402297-300x284.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/simarik-cocuk-ve-ebeveynler-e1712137402297-768x728.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/simarik-cocuk-ve-ebeveynler-e1712137402297.jpg 1024w\" >\n                <div class=\"glightbox__zoom\">\n                    <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/themes\/novakid\/public\/img\/icons\/search.svg\" alt=\"Zoom icon\" class=\"style-svg\">\n                <\/div>\n            <\/a>\n        <\/div>\n            <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n\n  <section class=\"section blogHeadingText\" id=\"blogHeadingText-block_2c3a8d03d2498eb3b78997fe3015b296\">\n    <div class=\"blogHeadingText__wrapper\" >\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__heading\">\n            <h2 class=\"blogHeadingText__headingItem\" data-blog-heading data-section-id=\"blogHeadingText-block_2c3a8d03d2498eb3b78997fe3015b296\">\n                Novakid\u2019le tan\u0131\u015f\u0131n!            <\/h2>\n        <\/div>\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__content\">\n            <p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bir dili \u00f6\u011frenmek i\u00e7in o dilde s\u0131k s\u0131k pratik yapman\u0131z gerekir. Novakid\u2019de <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">online \u0130ngilizce<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> derslerimizde \u00e7ocuklara bu deneyimi e\u011flenebilecekleri bir \u015fekilde sunuyoruz. 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