{"id":4609,"date":"2023-11-29T18:56:10","date_gmt":"2023-11-29T15:56:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/?p=4609"},"modified":"2023-11-29T18:56:10","modified_gmt":"2023-11-29T15:56:10","slug":"soz-dinlemeyen-cocuklarla-nasil-dogru-iletisim-kurulur","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/soz-dinlemeyen-cocuklarla-nasil-dogru-iletisim-kurulur\/","title":{"rendered":"S\u00f6z dinlemeyen \u00e7ocuklarla etkili ileti\u015fim kurman\u0131n yollar\u0131 nelerdir?"},"content":{"rendered":"  <section class=\"section blogHeader\" id=\"blogHeader-block_f32f7e53cb30bf1e4c8afde11443695f\">\n      <div class=\"blogHeader__wrapper\">\n                              <div class=\"blogHeader__image\">\n              <a href=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/1024\u0445613_How-to-talk-to-a-child-who-doesnt-listen.png\" class=\"glightbox\">\n                <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/1024\u0445613_How-to-talk-to-a-child-who-doesnt-listen.png\" alt=\"S\u00f6z dinlemeyen \u00e7ocuklarla etkili ileti\u015fim kurman\u0131n yollar\u0131 nelerdir?\" class=\"blogHeader__imageItem\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/1024\u0445613_How-to-talk-to-a-child-who-doesnt-listen-300x180.png 300w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/1024\u0445613_How-to-talk-to-a-child-who-doesnt-listen-768x460.png 768w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/1024\u0445613_How-to-talk-to-a-child-who-doesnt-listen.png 1024w\" style=\"width:100%; aspect-ratio:1024\/613;\"> \n              <\/a>\n          <\/div>\n          \n      <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n      <section class=\"blogContentTable\" data-toc-section>\n        <input type=\"checkbox\" id=\"blogTocToggle\" class=\"blogContentTable__toggle\" \/>\n        <label for=\"blogTocToggle\" class=\"blogContentTable__header\">\n            <span class=\"blogContentTable__heading\">\n                \u0130\u00e7indekiler            <\/span>\n            <span class=\"blogContentTable__arrow\"><\/span>\n        <\/label>\n        <div class=\"blogContentTable__wrapper\">\n            <div class=\"blogContentTable__heading blogContentTable__heading--sidebar\">\n                \u0130\u00e7indekiler            <\/div>\n            <ol class=\"blogContentTable__list\">\n                                    <li>\n                        <span class=\"toc-item\">\u00c7ocuklarla etkili ileti\u015fim yollar\u0131n\u0131 denemeden \u00f6nce yapmam\u0131z gerekenler neler?<\/span>\n                    <\/li>\n                                    <li>\n                        <span class=\"toc-item\">S\u00f6z dinlemeyen \u00e7ocuklarla do\u011fru ileti\u015fim nas\u0131l kurulur?<\/span>\n                    <\/li>\n                                    <li>\n                        <span class=\"toc-item\">\u00c7ocuklarla iyi ileti\u015fim kurmak i\u00e7in kullanabilece\u011finiz c\u00fcmleler<\/span>\n                    <\/li>\n                                    <li>\n                        <span class=\"toc-item\">S\u0131k\u00e7a sorulan sorular<\/span>\n                    <\/li>\n                                    <li>\n                        <span class=\"toc-item\">Novakid\u2019le tan\u0131\u015f\u0131n!<\/span>\n                    <\/li>\n                            <\/ol>\n        <\/div>\n    <\/section>\n\n    <script>\n        \/\/ Use DOMContentLoaded for faster TOC initialization\n        document.addEventListener('DOMContentLoaded', () => {\n            const tocSection = document.querySelector('[data-toc-section]');\n            if (!tocSection) return;\n\n            const headings = document.querySelectorAll('.blogHeadingText');\n            const tableContainer = tocSection.querySelector('.blogContentTable__list');\n            if (!tableContainer) return;\n\n            \/\/ Clear the container\n            tableContainer.innerHTML = '';\n\n            \/\/ Count valid headings with h2\n            let validHeadingsCount = 0;\n\n            \/\/ For each heading, create an item in the table of contents\n            headings.forEach((heading, index) => {\n                const h2 = heading.querySelector('h2');\n                if (!h2) return;\n\n                validHeadingsCount++;\n                const title = h2.textContent.trim();\n                const itemHtml = `<li><a href=\"#${heading.id}\">${title}<\/a><\/li>`;\n                tableContainer.innerHTML += itemHtml;\n            });\n\n            \/\/ Hide TOC if no valid headings found\n            if (validHeadingsCount === 0) {\n                tocSection.style.display = 'none';\n            }\n            \n            \/\/ Dispatch custom event to notify that TOC is ready\n            document.dispatchEvent(new CustomEvent('tocReady'));\n        });\n    <\/script>\n  \n\n\n  <section class=\"section blogText\" id=\"blogText-block_0734f139615052c0e22861dd77fdddc3\">\n    <div class=\"blogText__wrapper\">\n        <div class=\"blogText__content\">\n            <p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bazen ebeveynler olarak t\u00fcm \u00e7abalar\u0131n\u0131za ra\u011fmen \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun sizi dinlemedi\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyor olabilirsiniz. E\u011fer b\u00f6yle hissediyorsan\u0131z, yaln\u0131z de\u011filsiniz. Bir\u00e7ok anne baban\u0131n <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00e7ocuklar\u0131yla iyi ileti\u015fim<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> kurman\u0131n yollar\u0131n\u0131 arad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir ger\u00e7ek.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00d6zellikle ergenlik \u00e7a\u011f\u0131nda \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131za s\u00f6z ge\u00e7irmekte veya onlarla sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 diyalog kurabilmekte zorluklar ya\u015faman\u0131z olduk\u00e7a do\u011fal. B\u00f6yle anlarda \u00f6nemli olansa onlara kar\u015f\u0131 tutumumuzun nas\u0131l olaca\u011f\u0131na do\u011fru karar verebilmek.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Peki s\u00f6z dinlemeyen \u00e7ocuklar i\u00e7in neler yap\u0131labilir? Bu sorunu sizler i\u00e7in detayl\u0131ca incelemeye ve cevab\u0131n\u0131 vermeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131k. \u00d6yleyse ba\u015flayal\u0131m!<\/span><\/p>\n        <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n\n  <section class=\"section blogImage\" id=\"blogImage-block_c6a647dedb71dfd0e6fb462d655f7c17\">\n    <div class=\"blogImage__wrapper\" >\n        <div class=\"blogImage__image\">\n            <a href=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/How-to-talk-with-your-child-who-doesnt-listen.png\" class=\"glightbox\">\n                <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/How-to-talk-with-your-child-who-doesnt-listen.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"blogImage__imageItem\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/How-to-talk-with-your-child-who-doesnt-listen-300x180.png 300w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/How-to-talk-with-your-child-who-doesnt-listen-768x460.png 768w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/How-to-talk-with-your-child-who-doesnt-listen.png 1024w\" >\n                <div class=\"glightbox__zoom\">\n                    <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/themes\/novakid\/public\/img\/icons\/search.svg\" alt=\"Zoom icon\" class=\"style-svg\">\n                <\/div>\n            <\/a>\n        <\/div>\n            <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n\n  <section class=\"section blogHeadingText\" id=\"blogHeadingText-block_ac531c9447f9830d119b3c3a78c0a9c4\">\n    <div class=\"blogHeadingText__wrapper\" >\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__heading\">\n            <h2 class=\"blogHeadingText__headingItem\" data-blog-heading data-section-id=\"blogHeadingText-block_ac531c9447f9830d119b3c3a78c0a9c4\">\n                \u00c7ocuklarla etkili ileti\u015fim yollar\u0131n\u0131 denemeden \u00f6nce yapmam\u0131z gerekenler neler?            <\/h2>\n        <\/div>\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__content\">\n            <p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">S\u00f6z dinlemeyen inat\u00e7\u0131 <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00e7ocuklarla iyi ileti\u015fim<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> kurman\u0131n bir\u00e7ok yolu bulunuyor. Yaz\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n devam\u0131nda bunlardan bahsedece\u011fiz. Ama \u00f6nce, \u00e7ocuklarla ileti\u015fim kurmadan \u00f6nce neler yapabilirsiniz, onu g\u00f6relim.<\/span><b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun neden s\u00f6z dinlemedi\u011fine karar verin<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun s\u00f6z dinlememesinin bir\u00e7ok sebebi olabilir. Baz\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n s\u00f6z dinlememesi ergenlik kaynakl\u0131 olurken bazen bu durum psikolojik problemlerden dolay\u0131 olabilir. Onlarla do\u011fru \u015fekilde ileti\u015fim kurman\u0131z\u0131n yolu bu nedenleri iyi kavrayabilmenizden ge\u00e7er.<\/span><b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Uzman g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015flerinden faydalan\u0131n<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">S\u00f6z dinlemeyen \u00e7ocuklarla ileti\u015fim<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> kurman\u0131n yollar\u0131na dair bir\u00e7ok uzman g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fc bulunuyor. \u00c7ocu\u011funuzla konu\u015fmaya ba\u015flamadan \u00f6nce alan\u0131nda uzman pedagoglar\u0131n ya da psikiyatristlerin yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131 makalelerden veya kitaplardan yararlanabilirsiniz.<\/span><b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Ortam\u0131n uygun oldu\u011fundan emin olun<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Farkl\u0131 ileti\u015fim yollar\u0131n\u0131 denemeden \u00f6nce \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun rahat hissetti\u011finden emin olmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Bunun i\u00e7in \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun kendini tam anlam\u0131yla g\u00fcvende hissetti\u011fi bir ortam olu\u015fturmak da do\u011fal olarak sizin g\u00f6reviniz.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131zla aile ortam\u0131n\u0131n d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda, farkl\u0131 insanlar\u0131n da bulundu\u011fu yerlerde konu\u015fmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak onlar\u0131 rencide eder ve bu, neredeyse hi\u00e7bir zaman i\u015fe yaramaz.\u00a0<\/span><b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Kendinizi de\u011ferlendirin<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n s\u00f6z dinlemedi\u011fi zamanlarda onlar\u0131 sorgulamadan hatal\u0131 kabul etmek do\u011fru de\u011fildir. Kimi zaman hata, sizde de olabilir. Bu nedenle \u00e7ocu\u011funuzla sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ileti\u015fim kurma yollar\u0131na ba\u015fvurmadan \u00f6nce kendi hatalar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 da de\u011ferlendirmeniz gereklidir.<\/span><b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Haz\u0131r oldu\u011funuzdan emin olun<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocu\u011funuzla ilgili sorunlar\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6zmeye odaklanmadan \u00f6nce gerek mental olarak gerek fiziksel olarak haz\u0131r oldu\u011funuzdan emin olmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Bunun i\u00e7in zihninizi bo\u015faltmak ve i\u015flerinizi bitirmeniz gerekir.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocu\u011funuzla konu\u015furken ba\u015fka i\u015flerinizi halletmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fman\u0131z ve odak noktan\u0131z\u0131n de\u011fi\u015fmesi hem \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun dikkatini da\u011f\u0131t\u0131r hem de sizin sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ileti\u015fim kurman\u0131z\u0131 engeller.<\/span><\/p>\n        <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n\n  <section class=\"section blogImage\" id=\"blogImage-block_5fdb76adc4e2d7a1aa4900b418ccc45e\">\n    <div class=\"blogImage__wrapper\" >\n        <div class=\"blogImage__image\">\n            <a href=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/How-to-talk-with-your-child-who-doesnt-listen1.png\" class=\"glightbox\">\n                <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/How-to-talk-with-your-child-who-doesnt-listen1.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"blogImage__imageItem\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/How-to-talk-with-your-child-who-doesnt-listen1-300x180.png 300w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/How-to-talk-with-your-child-who-doesnt-listen1-768x460.png 768w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/How-to-talk-with-your-child-who-doesnt-listen1.png 1024w\" >\n                <div class=\"glightbox__zoom\">\n                    <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/themes\/novakid\/public\/img\/icons\/search.svg\" alt=\"Zoom icon\" class=\"style-svg\">\n                <\/div>\n            <\/a>\n        <\/div>\n            <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n\n  <section class=\"section blogText\" id=\"blogText-block_623844f9943e0788f1314e0f5db07af6\">\n    <div class=\"blogText__wrapper\">\n        <div class=\"blogText__content\">\n            <ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Evdeki ortam\u0131 g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7irin<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n olumsuz davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 kimi zaman ailedeki gergin ortamdan kaynaklanabilir. Ebeveynler aras\u0131ndaki tart\u0131\u015fma ve uyu\u015fmazl\u0131k bunu tetikleyen ana unsurlardan biri. Bu tarz anla\u015fmazl\u0131klar\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131za yans\u0131t\u0131p yans\u0131tmad\u0131\u011f\u0131nz da \u00e7ocu\u011funuzla ileti\u015fim kurmadan \u00f6nce de\u011ferlendirmeniz gerekenler aras\u0131nda.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">S\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc dinlemekte zorlanan \u00e7ocuklarla ileti\u015fim kurmadan \u00f6nce de\u011ferlendirmeniz gereken \u015feyler hakk\u0131nda birka\u00e7 ipucu verdik. \u015eimdi ise s\u0131rada, <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">s\u00f6z dinlemeyen \u00e7ocuklarla etkili ileti\u015fim<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> kurman\u0131n yollar\u0131n\u0131 incelemek var.<\/span><\/p>\n        <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n\n  <section class=\"section blogHeadingText\" id=\"blogHeadingText-block_3a500dccceffcc0356e0ce9f98411594\">\n    <div class=\"blogHeadingText__wrapper\" >\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__heading\">\n            <h2 class=\"blogHeadingText__headingItem\" data-blog-heading data-section-id=\"blogHeadingText-block_3a500dccceffcc0356e0ce9f98411594\">\n                S\u00f6z dinlemeyen \u00e7ocuklarla do\u011fru ileti\u015fim nas\u0131l kurulur?            <\/h2>\n        <\/div>\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__content\">\n            <p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocu\u011funuz s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc dinlememekte \u0131srarc\u0131. Onunla ileti\u015fim kurmak i\u00e7in gerekli ko\u015fullar\u0131 sa\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorsunuz. Geri kalan ad\u0131m ne? \u00c7ocu\u011funuza nas\u0131l davranman\u0131z gerekiyor? Yaz\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n bu k\u0131sm\u0131nda bu sorular\u0131n cevab\u0131n\u0131 verdik.<\/span><b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Sizinle empati kurmas\u0131na izin verin.<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocuklarla konu\u015furken amac\u0131n\u0131z yaln\u0131zca s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc dinletmek ve otoritenizi g\u00f6stermek olmamal\u0131. B\u00f6yle durumlarda \u00e7ocuklar, ebeveynleriyle daha \u00e7ok inatla\u015fmay\u0131 se\u00e7erler.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bu nedenle onunla empati kurmaya \u00e7abalad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z gibi, onlar\u0131n da sizlerle empati kurmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flay\u0131n. Onlara yapmalar\u0131 gereken \u015feyler konusunda daha a\u00e7\u0131klay\u0131c\u0131 olun. B\u00f6ylece \u00e7ocuklar sizleri daha iyi anlayacak ve onlara s\u00f6yledi\u011finiz \u015feyleri zorunda olduklar\u0131 i\u00e7in de\u011fil, sizi daha iyi hissettirmek i\u00e7in yapacaklar.<\/span><b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>\u00c7ocu\u011funuza etiketler yap\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmaktan ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131n<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131za inat\u00e7\u0131, s\u00f6z dinlemez, ba\u015f\u0131na buyruk gibi ki\u015filik \u00f6zelliklerini do\u011frudan yap\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmaktan ka\u00e7\u0131nmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ebeveyn \u00e7ocuk ileti\u015fiminde<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> bu gibi tav\u0131rlar, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmaya sebep olur.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun s\u00f6z dinlememesi dikkat da\u011f\u0131n\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 veya odaklanma sorunu gibi psikolojik nedenlere dayanabilir. Bunun olduk\u00e7a do\u011fal oldu\u011funu kendinize s\u0131k s\u0131k hat\u0131rlatman\u0131z gerekiyor.<\/span><b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Kibar bir konu\u015fma dili kullan\u0131n<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocuklarla iyi ileti\u015fim kurman\u0131n<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> en \u00f6nemli detaylar\u0131ndan biri de onlara kar\u015f\u0131 kibar olmak. \u00c7ocuklar, onlarla konu\u015fma \u015feklinize ba\u011fl\u0131 olarak kendilerini bask\u0131 alt\u0131nda ve stresli hissedebilirler.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bir yeti\u015fkin olarak onlara kar\u015f\u0131 kaba ve agresif bir tav\u0131r sergiledi\u011finizde amac\u0131n\u0131zdan \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015f olursunuz ve bu ters teper. Bu nedenle onlarla ileti\u015fim kurarken \u00f6zen g\u00f6stermeniz ve bu neticede hassas davranman\u0131z gerekli.<\/span><b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>A\u00e7\u0131klay\u0131c\u0131 olmaya \u00f6zen g\u00f6sterin<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocuklara a\u00e7\u0131k talimatlar vererek onlara ne yapmalar\u0131 gerekti\u011fini s\u00f6ylemeniz faydal\u0131 olsa da yeterli olmayabilir. Buna ek olarak neyi neden yapmalar\u0131 gerekti\u011fini a\u00e7\u0131klamakta ve bu do\u011frultuda onlara rehber olmakta da fayda var.<\/span><b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>\u00d6fkenize sahip \u00e7\u0131k\u0131n<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n baz\u0131 davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n sizi sinirlendirmesi ola\u011fan. Ancak bu gibi durumlarda \u00f6nemli olan, bunu onlara yans\u0131t\u0131p yans\u0131tmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z. \u00d6fkenizi \u00e7ocuklara do\u011frudan yans\u0131tman\u0131z onlarla sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ileti\u015fim kurman\u0131za engel olur.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bu sebeple, <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">s\u00f6z dinlemeyen \u00e7ocukla ileti\u015fim<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> kurarken kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki bireyin bir yeti\u015fkinin aksine olduk\u00e7a hassas oldu\u011funu ve a\u011fz\u0131n\u0131zdan \u00e7\u0131kan her s\u00f6zc\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn kar\u015f\u0131 tarafta hayal edebilece\u011finizden \u00e7ok daha b\u00fcy\u00fck etkilere sahip olabilece\u011fini akl\u0131n\u0131zdan \u00e7\u0131karmay\u0131n.<\/span><b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Duygular\u0131n\u0131 anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6sterin<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocuklarla etkili ileti\u015fim<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> kurmak i\u00e7in onlarla empati kurmam\u0131z gerekti\u011fini biliyoruz. Ancak, onlarla empati kurdu\u011fumuzu onlara da hissettirmemiz gerekiyor. Bunun i\u00e7in onlara cevap verirken onlar\u0131n duygular\u0131n\u0131 anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 belli etmeniz gerekir. Konu\u015furken \u201c&#8230; hissetti\u011fini anl\u0131yorum\u201d gibi kal\u0131plar kullanarak bunu sa\u011flaman\u0131z m\u00fcmk\u00fcn.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bu konuya de\u011finmi\u015fken <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/cocuklarda-bilissel-gelisim-nedir-nasil-olur\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">bili\u015fsel geli\u015fim<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u00e7a\u011f\u0131ndaki \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n kendi duygular\u0131n\u0131 yorumlamakta zorland\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 da hat\u0131rlatal\u0131m. Bir ebeveyn olarak, onlar\u0131 yarg\u0131lamadan ve ele\u015ftirmeden duygular\u0131n\u0131 daha iyi anlamalar\u0131 konusunda da s\u00f6zlerinizle onlara rehber olabilirsiniz.<\/span><b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Duygular\u0131n\u0131 kabul ederken davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 da do\u011fru \u015fekilde s\u0131n\u0131rland\u0131r\u0131n<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocuklar da t\u0131pk\u0131 yeti\u015fkinler gibi \u00f6fkelenebilir, k\u0131skanabilir veya \u00fcz\u00fclebilirler. Bu gibi durumlarda onlarla empati kurup duygular\u0131n\u0131 isimlendirseniz de \u00f6fkelerini istedikleri gibi d\u0131\u015far\u0131ya yans\u0131tmalar\u0131na izin vermeniz \u015fart de\u011fil.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ancak tekrar hat\u0131rlatmakta fayda var ki \u00e7ocuklara ba\u011f\u0131r\u0131p onlar\u0131 engellemeniz ya da onlar \u00fczerinde bask\u0131 kurman\u0131z i\u015fe yaramayacakt\u0131r. Onun yerine yapt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131n neden yanl\u0131\u015f oldu\u011funu anlatmak ve \u00f6fkelerini d\u0131\u015fa vurmalar\u0131n\u0131 olabilecek en sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 \u015fekilde engellemek en do\u011frusu.<\/span><b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Bask\u0131c\u0131 olmamaya dikkat edin<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Evde disiplini sa\u011flamak i\u00e7in \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131za kurallar ve k\u0131s\u0131tlamalar koyuyor olabilirsiniz. Bu \u00e7o\u011fu zaman \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/cocuklara-gerekli-aliskanliklar-ve-sorumluluklar-nelerdir\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sorumluluklar\u0131n\u0131<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> yerine getirmesine yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur. Ancak onlara kat\u0131 kurallar koymak ve gere\u011finden fazla s\u0131n\u0131r getirmek genelde \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n sizinle daha \u00e7ok inatla\u015fmas\u0131na neden olur.<\/span><b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Dengeyi sa\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zdan emin olun<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bir ebeveyn olarak <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">s\u00f6z dinlemeyen \u00e7ocu\u011funuzla<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> ileti\u015fim kurarken bask\u0131c\u0131 bir tav\u0131r sergilemedi\u011finzden emin oldu\u011funuz gibi \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun sizi ciddiye almas\u0131 i\u00e7in de \u00e7aba g\u00f6stermelisiniz.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">K\u0131sacas\u0131, \u00e7ocu\u011funuza kar\u015f\u0131 bask\u0131c\u0131 bir ebeveyn olmak ve onlar\u0131 serbest b\u0131rakmak aras\u0131nda sa\u011flam bir denge kurman\u0131z gerekiyor.<\/span><\/p>\n        <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n\n  <section class=\"section blogImage\" id=\"blogImage-block_5c48e5b2b3d93f8e1e6cbb387a5b26e0\">\n    <div class=\"blogImage__wrapper\" >\n        <div class=\"blogImage__image\">\n            <a href=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/How-to-talk-with-your-child-who-doesnt-listen2.png\" class=\"glightbox\">\n                <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/How-to-talk-with-your-child-who-doesnt-listen2.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"blogImage__imageItem\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/How-to-talk-with-your-child-who-doesnt-listen2-300x180.png 300w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/How-to-talk-with-your-child-who-doesnt-listen2-768x460.png 768w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/How-to-talk-with-your-child-who-doesnt-listen2.png 1024w\" >\n                <div class=\"glightbox__zoom\">\n                    <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/themes\/novakid\/public\/img\/icons\/search.svg\" alt=\"Zoom icon\" class=\"style-svg\">\n                <\/div>\n            <\/a>\n        <\/div>\n            <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n\n  <section class=\"section blogHeadingText\" id=\"blogHeadingText-block_558aced5ef17a1529a9c0c2fbdd1cec7\">\n    <div class=\"blogHeadingText__wrapper\" >\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__heading\">\n            <h2 class=\"blogHeadingText__headingItem\" data-blog-heading data-section-id=\"blogHeadingText-block_558aced5ef17a1529a9c0c2fbdd1cec7\">\n                \u00c7ocuklarla iyi ileti\u015fim kurmak i\u00e7in kullanabilece\u011finiz c\u00fcmleler            <\/h2>\n        <\/div>\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__content\">\n            <p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocuklarla <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">nas\u0131l do\u011fru ileti\u015fim kurulaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">g\u00f6rd\u00fck. Peki, sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ileti\u015fim yollar\u0131na ba\u015fvururken ne tarz c\u00fcmlelerden faydalanabiliriz? Gelin buna da maddeler halinde g\u00f6z atal\u0131m:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201c<\/span><b>Evet.\u201d \u201cAnl\u0131yorum.\u201d \u201cHakl\u0131s\u0131n.\u201d<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocuklarla ileti\u015fim kurman\u0131z kadar onlar\u0131n da sizinle ileti\u015fim kurmas\u0131 \u00f6nemli. Kendilerini ifade etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131nda ise bu tarz c\u00fcmleler onlar\u0131 daha \u00f6zg\u00fcvenli hissettirir. Onlar\u0131 dinledi\u011finizi kan\u0131tlamak i\u00e7in bu tarz onaylama c\u00fcmlelerine ba\u015fvurabilirsiniz.<\/span><b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>\u201c&#8230; oldu\u011funu\/hissetti\u011fini biliyorum.\u201d<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n duygular\u0131n\u0131 isimlendirmenizin onlarla empati kurdu\u011funuzu belli etmek i\u00e7in faydal\u0131 bir yol oldu\u011fundan bahsettik. Bunu belli etmek i\u00e7in de konu\u015fman\u0131za \u201c\u00d6fkeli oldu\u011funu biliyorum.\u201d \u201c\u00dcz\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcn fark\u0131nday\u0131m.\u201d gibi c\u00fcmlelerle ba\u015flayabilirsiniz.<\/span><b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>\u201c&#8230; yapmaya ne dersin?\u201d \u201cBirlikte \u2026 yapal\u0131m m\u0131?\u201d<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocuklara disiplin kazand\u0131rmak i\u00e7in onlara a\u00e7\u0131k emirler vermek yerine, ne yapmalar\u0131 gerekti\u011fi konusunda fikirler verebilir veya onlarla birlikte yapmay\u0131 teklif edebilirsiniz.<\/span><b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>\u201cBunu yapman beni b\u00f6yle hissettirdi.\u201d<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n inat\u00e7\u0131 davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n sizde nas\u0131l bir kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n oldu\u011funu bilmeleri de \u00f6nemli. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ebeveyn \u00e7ocuk ileti\u015fiminiz<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> her ne kadar zorlu olsa da \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z sizi severler. Bu nedenle olumsuz davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n sizi nas\u0131l hissettirdi\u011fini bilmeleri de davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131na \u00e7eki d\u00fczen vermelerini sa\u011flar.<\/span><b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>\u201cNeden b\u00f6yle yap\u0131yorsun?\u201d \u201cBeni dinlememenin sebebi nedir?\u201d<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n sizi dinlememesinin alt\u0131nda bir\u00e7ok neden yatar. Bunu bir de onlardan dinlemek, hem daha iyi empati kurman\u0131z\u0131 sa\u011flar hem de \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n kendisini daha iyi ifade etmesinin kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7ar.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201c\u00c7ocuklarla do\u011fru ileti\u015fim nas\u0131l kurulur?\u201d<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> sorusunu sizler i\u00e7in cevaplad\u0131k. Bununla birlikte, s\u0131k\u00e7a sorulan sorular\u0131 basit\u00e7e cevaplad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z k\u0131sma da a\u015fa\u011f\u0131dan eri\u015febilirsiniz.<\/span><\/p>\n        <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n\n  <section class=\"section blogImage\" id=\"blogImage-block_7ceb6f7522272b9c845b580b9bf19f47\">\n    <div class=\"blogImage__wrapper\" >\n        <div class=\"blogImage__image\">\n            <a href=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/How-to-talk-with-your-child-who-doesnt-listen3.png\" class=\"glightbox\">\n                <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/How-to-talk-with-your-child-who-doesnt-listen3.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"blogImage__imageItem\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/How-to-talk-with-your-child-who-doesnt-listen3-300x180.png 300w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/How-to-talk-with-your-child-who-doesnt-listen3-768x460.png 768w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/How-to-talk-with-your-child-who-doesnt-listen3.png 1024w\" >\n                <div class=\"glightbox__zoom\">\n                    <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/themes\/novakid\/public\/img\/icons\/search.svg\" alt=\"Zoom icon\" class=\"style-svg\">\n                <\/div>\n            <\/a>\n        <\/div>\n            <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n\n  <section class=\"section blogHeadingText\" id=\"blogHeadingText-block_b97ec3f1b324ec4245ae336531a883b6\">\n    <div class=\"blogHeadingText__wrapper\" >\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__heading\">\n            <h2 class=\"blogHeadingText__headingItem\" data-blog-heading data-section-id=\"blogHeadingText-block_b97ec3f1b324ec4245ae336531a883b6\">\n                S\u0131k\u00e7a sorulan sorular            <\/h2>\n        <\/div>\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__content\">\n            <p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yaz\u0131y\u0131 sonland\u0131rmadan \u00f6nce s\u0131k\u00e7a sorulan sorulara yer verdi\u011fimiz k\u0131sma da g\u00f6z atabilirsiniz.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">S\u00f6z dinlemeyen \u00e7ocuk i\u00e7in ne yap\u0131labilir?<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">S\u00f6z dinlemeyen \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z i\u00e7in uzman g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015flerini dinleyebilir ve onlarla sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ileti\u015fim kurman\u0131n yollar\u0131n\u0131 arayabilirsiniz.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bir \u00e7ocuk neden s\u00f6z dinlemez?<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc dinlememesi \u00e7o\u011funlukla karamsar i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyas\u0131yla alakal\u0131d\u0131r. Bu da genelde ergenlik d\u00f6nemine denk gelebilir.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u0130nat\u00e7\u0131 bir \u00e7ocu\u011fa nas\u0131l davran\u0131lmal\u0131?<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u0130nat\u00e7\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131zla konu\u015furken onlarla empati kurman\u0131z ve uzla\u015fmac\u0131 ileti\u015fim yollar\u0131n\u0131 denemeniz i\u015fe yarar.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">H\u0131r\u00e7\u0131n bir \u00e7ocu\u011fa nas\u0131l davran\u0131lmal\u0131?<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">H\u0131r\u00e7\u0131n \u00e7ocuklara ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcyle yakla\u015fman\u0131z ve onlar\u0131 sakinle\u015ftirmeye y\u00f6nelik anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131 bir tav\u0131r sergilemeniz gerekir.<\/span><\/p>\n        <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n\n  <section class=\"section blogHeadingText\" id=\"blogHeadingText-block_069aa55e547b614e0cf508962e80ea53\">\n    <div class=\"blogHeadingText__wrapper\" >\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__heading\">\n            <h2 class=\"blogHeadingText__headingItem\" data-blog-heading data-section-id=\"blogHeadingText-block_069aa55e547b614e0cf508962e80ea53\">\n                Novakid\u2019le tan\u0131\u015f\u0131n!            <\/h2>\n        <\/div>\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__content\">\n            <p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocuklar\u0131 ezberci anlay\u0131\u015ftan uzak bir \u015fekilde \u0130ngilizceyle tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131ran<\/span> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Novakid\u2019i<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u015fimdi deneyin.. 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