{"id":2794,"date":"2023-05-30T16:16:35","date_gmt":"2023-05-30T13:16:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/?p=2794"},"modified":"2023-09-28T10:53:35","modified_gmt":"2023-09-28T07:53:35","slug":"cocuklar-neden-yalan-soyler-yalana-karsi-ne-yapilmali","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/cocuklar-neden-yalan-soyler-yalana-karsi-ne-yapilmali\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7ocuklar neden yalan s\u00f6yler, bu normal midir? \u0130\u015fte ebeveynlerin bilmesi gereken her \u015fey!"},"content":{"rendered":"  <section class=\"section blogHeader\" id=\"blogHeader-block_789558cb4edc3b24b6696accfdf4a165\">\n      <div class=\"blogHeader__wrapper\">\n                              <div class=\"blogHeader__image\">\n              <a href=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed-1-5.png\" class=\"glightbox\">\n                <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed-1-5.png\" alt=\"Psikolog G\u00fclizar \u015eehito\u011flu, foto\u011fraf ill\u00fcstrasyonu, Novakid\" class=\"blogHeader__imageItem\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed-1-5-300x180.png 300w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed-1-5-768x460.png 768w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed-1-5.png 1024w\" style=\"width:100%; aspect-ratio:1024\/613;\"> \n              <\/a>\n          <\/div>\n          \n      <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n      <section class=\"blogContentTable\" data-toc-section>\n        <input type=\"checkbox\" id=\"blogTocToggle\" class=\"blogContentTable__toggle\" \/>\n        <label for=\"blogTocToggle\" class=\"blogContentTable__header\">\n            <span class=\"blogContentTable__heading\">\n                \u0130\u00e7indekiler            <\/span>\n            <span class=\"blogContentTable__arrow\"><\/span>\n        <\/label>\n        <div class=\"blogContentTable__wrapper\">\n            <div class=\"blogContentTable__heading blogContentTable__heading--sidebar\">\n                \u0130\u00e7indekiler            <\/div>\n            <ol class=\"blogContentTable__list\">\n                                    <li>\n                        <span class=\"toc-item\">Yalan s\u00f6ylemek ne demek?<\/span>\n                    <\/li>\n                                    <li>\n                        <span class=\"toc-item\">\u00c7ocuklar neden yalan s\u00f6yler?<\/span>\n                    <\/li>\n                                    <li>\n                        <span class=\"toc-item\">Bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun yalan s\u00f6ylemesi nas\u0131l \u00f6nlenir?<\/span>\n                    <\/li>\n                                    <li>\n                        <span class=\"toc-item\">Yalan s\u00f6yleyen \u00e7ocu\u011fa \/ ergene nas\u0131l davranmal\u0131?<\/span>\n                    <\/li>\n                                    <li>\n                        <span class=\"toc-item\">\u00c7ocuklar ka\u00e7 ya\u015f\u0131nda yalan s\u00f6ylemeye ba\u015flar?<\/span>\n                    <\/li>\n                                    <li>\n                        <span class=\"toc-item\">Novakid\u2019le tan\u0131\u015f\u0131n!<\/span>\n                    <\/li>\n                            <\/ol>\n        <\/div>\n    <\/section>\n\n    <script>\n        \/\/ Use DOMContentLoaded for faster TOC initialization\n        document.addEventListener('DOMContentLoaded', () => {\n            const tocSection = document.querySelector('[data-toc-section]');\n            if (!tocSection) return;\n\n            const headings = document.querySelectorAll('.blogHeadingText');\n            const tableContainer = tocSection.querySelector('.blogContentTable__list');\n            if (!tableContainer) return;\n\n            \/\/ Clear the container\n            tableContainer.innerHTML = '';\n\n            \/\/ Count valid headings with h2\n            let validHeadingsCount = 0;\n\n            \/\/ For each heading, create an item in the table of contents\n            headings.forEach((heading, index) => {\n                const h2 = heading.querySelector('h2');\n                if (!h2) return;\n\n                validHeadingsCount++;\n                const title = h2.textContent.trim();\n                const itemHtml = `<li><a href=\"#${heading.id}\">${title}<\/a><\/li>`;\n                tableContainer.innerHTML += itemHtml;\n            });\n\n            \/\/ Hide TOC if no valid headings found\n            if (validHeadingsCount === 0) {\n                tocSection.style.display = 'none';\n            }\n            \n            \/\/ Dispatch custom event to notify that TOC is ready\n            document.dispatchEvent(new CustomEvent('tocReady'));\n        });\n    <\/script>\n  \n\n\n  <section class=\"section blogText\" id=\"blogText-block_6e126f79ed5877912489eff1cc15b983\">\n    <div class=\"blogText__wrapper\">\n        <div class=\"blogText__content\">\n            <p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z en karma\u015f\u0131k sorunlardan biri de <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">yalan konu\u015fma<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131d\u0131r. Peki <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00e7ocuklar neden yalan s\u00f6yler<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, bu durum normal midir ve en \u00f6nemlisi bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun yalan s\u00f6ylemesi nas\u0131l \u00f6nlenir? \u0130\u015fte bu i\u00e7eri\u011fimizde t\u00fcm bu sorulara uzman psikolog G\u00fclizar \u015eehito\u011flu\u2019nun g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fleri ile yan\u0131t bulaca\u011f\u0131z.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n        <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n\n  <section class=\"section blogHeadingText\" id=\"blogHeadingText-block_b90257bf46feb6a4e90498db60dcfc8a\">\n    <div class=\"blogHeadingText__wrapper\" >\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__heading\">\n            <h2 class=\"blogHeadingText__headingItem\" data-blog-heading data-section-id=\"blogHeadingText-block_b90257bf46feb6a4e90498db60dcfc8a\">\n                Yalan s\u00f6ylemek ne demek?            <\/h2>\n        <\/div>\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__content\">\n            <p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yalan s\u00f6ylemek, ger\u00e7e\u011fe ayk\u0131r\u0131 bir durumu veya olay\u0131, ger\u00e7ekmi\u015f gibi ifade etme kavram\u0131na verilen isimdir. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yalan konu\u015fmak<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> genellikle bir \u015feyi saklamak, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 yan\u0131ltmak veya ki\u015fisel \u00e7\u0131kar sa\u011flamak amac\u0131yla yap\u0131l\u0131r. Yalan, ahlaki ve etik de\u011ferlere ayk\u0131r\u0131 olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcr, bu sebeple genellikle toplumlar taraf\u0131ndan ho\u015f kar\u015f\u0131lanmaz.<\/span><\/p>\n        <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n\n  <section class=\"section blogHeadingText\" id=\"blogHeadingText-block_c93ae2381ce0c48239f2063b32b4c1f9\">\n    <div class=\"blogHeadingText__wrapper\" >\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__heading\">\n            <h2 class=\"blogHeadingText__headingItem\" data-blog-heading data-section-id=\"blogHeadingText-block_c93ae2381ce0c48239f2063b32b4c1f9\">\n                \u00c7ocuklar neden yalan s\u00f6yler?            <\/h2>\n        <\/div>\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__content\">\n            <p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n yalan s\u00f6ylemesini engelleyebilmek i\u00e7in yapman\u0131z gereken en \u00f6nemli \u015feylerden bir tanesi, bu al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n neden ortaya \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmek. Bu sayede sorunun k\u00f6k\u00fcne inerek \u00e7ocu\u011funuzdaki <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">yalan konu\u015fma<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 azaltabilir veya bitirebilirsiniz.<\/span><\/p>\n        <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n\n  <section class=\"section blogImage\" id=\"blogImage-block_f7bcb87a4c7319cfb8bec7693388ee85\">\n    <div class=\"blogImage__wrapper\" >\n        <div class=\"blogImage__image\">\n            <a href=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed1-9.jpeg\" class=\"glightbox\">\n                <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed1-9.jpeg\" alt=\"Bir\u00e7ok Yalan S\u00f6yleyen K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00c7ocuk Vekt\u00f6r Karikat\u00fcr \u0130ll\u00fcstrasyon\" class=\"blogImage__imageItem\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed1-9-300x209.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed1-9-1024x714.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed1-9-768x535.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed1-9-1536x1070.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed1-9-1080x753.jpeg 1080w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed1-9.jpeg 1600w\" >\n                <div class=\"glightbox__zoom\">\n                    <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/themes\/novakid\/public\/img\/icons\/search.svg\" alt=\"Zoom icon\" class=\"style-svg\">\n                <\/div>\n            <\/a>\n        <\/div>\n            <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n\n  <section class=\"section blogText\" id=\"blogText-block_a13372172e15ba67dfb4d70333dd935d\">\n    <div class=\"blogText__wrapper\">\n        <div class=\"blogText__content\">\n            <p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Uzman psikolog G\u00fclizar \u015eehito\u011flu, <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">yalan s\u00f6yleme<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> d\u00f6nemini \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n i\u00e7erisinden ge\u00e7ti\u011fi bir evre olarak tan\u0131ml\u0131yor. G\u00fclizar \u015eehito\u011flu\u2019na g\u00f6re \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">yalan konu\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131n<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> ard\u0131nda ise k\u00f6t\u00fc sonu\u00e7lardan ka\u00e7\u0131nma ve onaylanma iste\u011fi gibi baz\u0131 sebepler yat\u0131yor. \u00c7ocuk, yalan\u0131n etkili bir ileti\u015fim stratejisi oldu\u011funu g\u00f6r\u00fcnce bu al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 olu\u015fturmaya ba\u015fl\u0131yor.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dilerseniz gelin <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">yalan konu\u015fma <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sebeplerinden baz\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n her birine daha detayl\u0131 bir g\u00f6z atal\u0131m.<\/span><b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Baz\u0131 ama\u00e7lara ula\u015fmak<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocuklar, \u00f6rnek olarak daha fazla oyun oynamak istedikleri i\u00e7in yalan s\u00f6yleyerek \u00f6dev yapmaktan ka\u00e7\u0131nabilir. B\u00f6yle durumlarda \u00e7ocuk, <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">yalan konu\u015fmak<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> i\u00e7in spesifik bir motivasyona sahiptir.<\/span><b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>K\u00f6t\u00fc sonu\u00e7lardan ka\u00e7\u0131nmak<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00d6rne\u011fin \u00e7ocuk evde bir bardak k\u0131rd\u0131ysa ve azardan ka\u00e7\u0131nmak istiyorsa bunu kendisinin yapmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yleyebilir. Bu tarz bir motivasyonu engellemek i\u00e7in \u00e7ocu\u011funuzu azarla cezaland\u0131rmaktan \u00e7ekinmenizi, kendisinin d\u00fcr\u00fcst davranmas\u0131n\u0131 ise takdir etmenizi \u00f6neririz &#8211; bu konuya yaz\u0131n\u0131n devam\u0131nda daha detayl\u0131 bir \u015fekilde de de\u011finece\u011fiz.<\/span><b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Sosyal onay<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bir \u00e7ocuk, sosyal etkile\u015fimleri daha iyi anlamaya ba\u015flad\u0131ktan sonra \u00e7evresi taraf\u0131ndan kabul g\u00f6rebilmek, \u201chaval\u0131\u201d g\u00f6r\u00fclebilmek i\u00e7in <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">yalan s\u00f6yleme <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ihtiyac\u0131 hissedebilir. Bu durum her \u00e7ocukta ayn\u0131 de\u011fildir &#8211; bu konuyu da yaz\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n devam\u0131nda a\u00e7arak detaylardan bahsedece\u011fiz.<\/span><b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>A\u00e7\u0131k olma korkusu<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00d6zellikle de <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ergenlikte yalan s\u00f6ylemenin <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">en b\u00fcy\u00fck nedenlerinden bir tanesi, \u00e7ocu\u011fun baz\u0131 \u015feyler hakk\u0131nda a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a konu\u015fmaktan korkmas\u0131. Bu durumla \u00f6zellikle daha otoriter bir <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/4-ebeveynlik-tarzi-hakkinda-bilmeniz-gereken-her-sey\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ebeveynlik tarz\u0131<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> izleyen ailelerin \u00e7ocuklar\u0131nda rastl\u0131yoruz. S\u0131k\u0131 davranan ebeveynler \u00e7ocu\u011fu ele\u015ftirmiyor gibi g\u00f6z\u00fckse de \u00e7ocuk a\u00e7\u0131k olmaktan korkabiliyor.<\/span><b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Birey olma iste\u011fi<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Otoriter ebeveynlerin \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">yalan s\u00f6ylemesinin<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> ard\u0131nda sadece ebeveynlerinden alacaklar\u0131 tepkiden korkmalar\u0131 de\u011fil, ayn\u0131 zamanda birey olma iste\u011fi de yatabilir. Sonu\u00e7ta otonomi her bireyin, \u00f6zellikle de ergenlerin ihtiya\u00e7 duydu\u011fu bir hissiyat. E\u011fer ebeveynler \u00e7ocu\u011fa \u00e7ok bask\u0131 uyguluyorsa \u00e7ocuk bu bask\u0131dan kendini soyutlayabilmek, ayr\u0131 bir ki\u015fi olarak hissedebilmek, kendi ki\u015fili\u011fini oturtabilmek i\u00e7in <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">yalan konu\u015fma <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ihtiyac\u0131 hissedebilir.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n        <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n\n  <section class=\"section blogImage\" id=\"blogImage-block_a8949fe34c9608868d6c62e1ce24b2df\">\n    <div class=\"blogImage__wrapper\" >\n        <div class=\"blogImage__image\">\n            <a href=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed-2-4.png\" class=\"glightbox\">\n                <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed-2-4.png\" alt=\"Konsept, ebeveynlerine yalan s\u00f6yleyen bir \u00e7ocuk, bir \u00f6rnek\" class=\"blogImage__imageItem\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed-2-4-300x180.png 300w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed-2-4-768x460.png 768w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed-2-4.png 1024w\" >\n                <div class=\"glightbox__zoom\">\n                    <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/themes\/novakid\/public\/img\/icons\/search.svg\" alt=\"Zoom icon\" class=\"style-svg\">\n                <\/div>\n            <\/a>\n        <\/div>\n            <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n\n  <section class=\"section blogHeadingText\" id=\"blogHeadingText-block_b5a449e195881ee72f8738187e70771f\">\n    <div class=\"blogHeadingText__wrapper\" >\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__heading\">\n            <h2 class=\"blogHeadingText__headingItem\" data-blog-heading data-section-id=\"blogHeadingText-block_b5a449e195881ee72f8738187e70771f\">\n                Bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun yalan s\u00f6ylemesi nas\u0131l \u00f6nlenir?            <\/h2>\n        <\/div>\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__content\">\n            <p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yalan\u0131 engelleyebilmek i\u00e7in \u00e7ocu\u011funuza d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn onayland\u0131\u011f\u0131, yalan s\u00f6ylemenin ise uygun g\u00f6r\u00fclmedi\u011fi bir ortam sunmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. B\u00f6ylece \u00e7ocuk kabul g\u00f6rme ihtiyac\u0131 i\u00e7in <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">yalan konu\u015fmak<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> zorunda oldu\u011funu hissetmeden d\u00fcr\u00fcst olma gayretinde bulunabilir.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Buradaki bir di\u011fer \u00f6nemli nokta ise \u00e7ocu\u011fun ebeveynlerinin d\u00fcr\u00fcst oldu\u011funu g\u00f6rmesi. \u00d6rne\u011fin bir \u00e7ocuk annesini <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">yalan s\u00f6ylerken<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> yakalarsa bunun \u00e7ok da k\u00f6t\u00fc bir \u015fey olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebilir &#8211; bu sebeple <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/cocuklara-gerekli-aliskanliklar-ve-sorumluluklar-nelerdir\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> olu\u015ftururken ebeveynler olarak sadece s\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fczle de\u011fil, daha da \u00f6nemlisi davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131zla \u00f6rnek olu\u015fturmal\u0131y\u0131z. Sonu\u00e7ta bir \u00e7ocuk ebeveynlerinin sadece kendisiyle olan de\u011fil, birbirileriyle olan ili\u015fkilerini de g\u00f6zlemler.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocu\u011fa, d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn onayland\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve \u00f6d\u00fcllendirildi\u011fi bir ortam sunabilmek i\u00e7in ebeveynler g\u00fcn i\u00e7erisinde k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir bo\u015f an yakalayarak \u00e7ocukla konu\u015fabilir. Diyelim ki \u00e7ocu\u011funuz bir bardak k\u0131rd\u0131 ve su\u00e7u evdeki kediye atmadan size d\u00fcr\u00fcst bir \u015fekilde b\u00f6yle bir hata yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yledi.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bu durumda \u00e7ocu\u011funuzla gurur duydu\u011funuzu ona s\u00f6yleyerek bu d\u00fcr\u00fcst davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6d\u00fcllendirmelisiniz. \u0130nsan\u0131z, hepimiz hata yapabiliriz, bu sebeple <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">yalan s\u00f6ylemenin<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> arkas\u0131ndaki motivasyonu anlay\u0131p \u00e7ocu\u011fumuzla empati kurmal\u0131y\u0131z. \u00c7ocuk ise \u00f6d\u00fcllendirilen, takdir edilen bir davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 tekrardan yapmaya e\u011filimlidir.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">E\u011fer \u00e7ocuk m\u00fckemmel olmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini hissederse, hayatta hata yapmaya hakk\u0131n\u0131n olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrse <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">yalan konu\u015fmak<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> i\u00e7in kendine uygun bahaneyi bulmu\u015f olur.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yalan s\u00f6ylemenin uygun g\u00f6r\u00fclmemesi gerekti\u011fini s\u00f6ylemi\u015ftik, fakat bu sizi yan\u0131ltmas\u0131n. \u00c7ocu\u011fu <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">yalan s\u00f6yledi\u011fi<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> i\u00e7in \u201ccezaland\u0131rmak\u201d da do\u011fru bir y\u00f6ntem de\u011fil. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc cezaland\u0131rma, \u00e7ocu\u011fa davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131n neden yanl\u0131\u015f oldu\u011funu hi\u00e7bir \u015fekilde a\u00e7\u0131klam\u0131yor.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Uzman psikolog G\u00fclizar \u015eehito\u011flu, cezaland\u0131rma yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131yla ilgili a\u015fa\u011f\u0131daki yorumda bulunuyor:<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cBirini cezaland\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda \u201cG\u00fczel, bu cezayla davran\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131n bedelini \u00f6dedim.\u201d diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebilir. Fakat \u201cBunun sonu\u00e7lar\u0131 neydi, bunu neden yapmamal\u0131yd\u0131m?\u201d diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmez.\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yani \u00e7ocuk, bu cezaland\u0131rmay\u0131 bir \u00f6\u011frenme f\u0131rsat\u0131 olarak de\u011fil, yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 yanl\u0131\u015f davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n bir bedeli olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcr. Bu durum, gelecekteki davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n de\u011fi\u015fmesine etkide bulunmayaca\u011f\u0131 gibi \u00e7ocu\u011fun <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">yalan s\u00f6ylemeye<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> devam etmesine de yol a\u00e7abilir.<\/span><\/p>\n        <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n\n\n\n  <section class=\"section blogHeadingText\" id=\"blogHeadingText-block_5d39236f1a34410546abb4ebaa19e10c\">\n    <div class=\"blogHeadingText__wrapper\" >\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__heading\">\n            <h2 class=\"blogHeadingText__headingItem\" data-blog-heading data-section-id=\"blogHeadingText-block_5d39236f1a34410546abb4ebaa19e10c\">\n                Yalan s\u00f6yleyen \u00e7ocu\u011fa \/ ergene nas\u0131l davranmal\u0131?            <\/h2>\n        <\/div>\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__content\">\n            <p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Diyelim ki \u00e7ocu\u011funuz h\u00e2lihaz\u0131rda \u00e7evresinden <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">yalan s\u00f6yleme<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 edinmi\u015f. Bu durumda <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">yalan s\u00f6yleme al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 nas\u0131l b\u0131rak\u0131l\u0131r<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">s\u00f6yledi\u011fi ile yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir olmayan<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u00e7ocu\u011fa kar\u015f\u0131 nas\u0131l davran\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">E\u011fer \u00e7ocuklukta veya <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ergenlikte yalan s\u00f6yleme<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6zlemliyorsan\u0131z yapman\u0131z gereken en \u00f6nemli \u015fey, \u00e7ocu\u011funuzla bu konuda a\u00e7\u0131k ve net bir \u015fekilde konu\u015fmak.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bu konu\u015fmada \u00e7ocu\u011funuza yalan\u0131n neden k\u00f6t\u00fc oldu\u011funu, nas\u0131l k\u00f6t\u00fc sonu\u00e7lara yol a\u00e7abildi\u011fini, insan ili\u015fkilerini nas\u0131l mahvedebilece\u011fini anlatmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Bunun yan\u0131nda d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn de neden \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funu anlatarak \u00e7ocu\u011funuzu bu davran\u0131\u015fa te\u015fvik etmelisiniz.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bu konu\u015fma esnas\u0131nda dikkat etmeniz gereken bir di\u011fer konu ise \u00e7ocu\u011funuzu \u201cetiketlememeye\u201d dikkat etmeniz. Bir\u00e7ok ebeveyn, b\u00f6yle bir durumla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131nda sinirden \u00e7ocu\u011funa \u201cyalanc\u0131\u201d gibi etiketler takabilir. Esasen bu \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck bir hata.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc yapman\u0131z gereken \u015fey \u00e7ocu\u011funuza b\u00fct\u00fcn ki\u015fili\u011fini tan\u0131mlayan bir etiket takmak de\u011fil, sadece o davran\u0131\u015f \u00f6zelinde \u00e7al\u0131\u015farak yalan al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fczeltmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">yalan konu\u015fmak<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> b\u00fct\u00fcn ki\u015fili\u011fi de\u011fil, ki\u015fili\u011fin sadece ufak bir par\u00e7as\u0131n\u0131 olu\u015fturuyor.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocu\u011fumu yalan s\u00f6ylerken yakalad\u0131m, ne yapmal\u0131y\u0131m?<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Diyelim ki \u00e7ocu\u011funuz size \u00f6devini yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yledi, fakat siz asl\u0131nda bunun do\u011fru olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n fark\u0131ndas\u0131n\u0131z. \u00c7ocu\u011funuz bu <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">yalan\u0131 s\u00f6yleyerek<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> kendine oyun oynamak i\u00e7in, tablete bakmak i\u00e7in, video izlemek i\u00e7in zaman kazand\u0131rm\u0131\u015f oldu.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bu noktada ilk yapman\u0131z gereken \u015fey, \u00e7ocu\u011funuza bu yalan\u0131n fark\u0131nda oldu\u011funuzu g\u00f6stermek. Bunun i\u00e7in \u00e7ocukla konu\u015fmadan \u00f6nce \u00f6fkenizi kontrol etmeli, sinirlenmeden konu\u015fabilece\u011finizden emin olmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Sonras\u0131nda ise \u00e7ocu\u011funuzla konu\u015farak ondan beklediklerinizi net bir \u015fekilde anlatmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00d6devin neden \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funu, faydalar\u0131n\u0131, e\u011fer yapmazsa gelecekte kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fabilece\u011fi sorunlar\u0131 ona aktarmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. E\u011fer \u00e7ocu\u011funuz bu al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 devam ettirirse de davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131n do\u011fal sonu\u00e7lar\u0131yla (okulda d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck not almak, molaya \u00e7\u0131kamama, okulda daha fazla kalmak gibi) kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fmas\u0131na da izin vermelisiniz. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc biz insanlar baz\u0131 \u015feyleri en iyi deneyimleyerek \u00f6\u011freniriz.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">K\u0131sacas\u0131 yalan davran\u0131\u015f\u0131yla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda \u00f6ncelikle \u00e7ocu\u011funuza sakin bir \u015fekilde bunun fark\u0131nda oldu\u011funuzu a\u00e7\u0131klamal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Sonras\u0131nda ise bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n do\u011furabilece\u011fi k\u00f6t\u00fc sonu\u00e7lardan bahsetmelisiniz. E\u011fer \u00e7ocuk bu davran\u0131\u015fa devam ediyorsa da bu sonu\u00e7lar\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131na gelmesine izin vermelisiniz.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bir\u00e7ok ebeveyn, \u00e7ocu\u011funun ba\u015f\u0131na k\u00f6t\u00fc \u015feyler gelmesini istemedi\u011fi i\u00e7in son a\u015famada duruyor. Fakat uzman psikolog G\u00fclizar \u015eehito\u011flu\u2019na g\u00f6re bu \u015fekilde \u00f6\u011frenmek olduk\u00e7a de\u011ferli.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cBir\u00e7ok ebeveyn bu noktada duruyor, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n insanlar\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcnde utanmas\u0131n\u0131 istemiyorlar mesela. Bu \u00e7ok normal bir davran\u0131\u015f, bunu ele\u015ftirmiyorum, tabii ki de \u00e7ocu\u011fumuz i\u00e7in en iyisini isteyece\u011fiz. Fakat onlar\u0131n hayatta olumsuz sonu\u00e7larla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 engelleyemeyiz. Bunlarla y\u00fczle\u015fmek zorunday\u0131z.\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\n        <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n\n  <section class=\"section blogHeadingText\" id=\"blogHeadingText-block_8bd5a885c21bb777bac8a1f04926f686\">\n    <div class=\"blogHeadingText__wrapper\" >\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__heading\">\n            <h2 class=\"blogHeadingText__headingItem\" data-blog-heading data-section-id=\"blogHeadingText-block_8bd5a885c21bb777bac8a1f04926f686\">\n                \u00c7ocuklar ka\u00e7 ya\u015f\u0131nda yalan s\u00f6ylemeye ba\u015flar?            <\/h2>\n        <\/div>\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__content\">\n            <p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocuklukta ve <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ergenlikte yalan s\u00f6ylemek<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> normal midir, \u00e7ocuklar bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 g\u00f6stermeye ne zaman ba\u015flar? Bu sorular\u0131n cevab\u0131 i\u00e7in gelin G\u00fclizar \u015eehito\u011flu\u2019nun yorumlar\u0131n\u0131 incelemeye devam edelim.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocuklar, <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">yalan s\u00f6yleme<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> kavram\u0131n\u0131n ne oldu\u011funu 3-4 ya\u015flar\u0131nda anlarlar. Bu a\u015famada \u00e7ocuklar ba\u015fka insanlar\u0131n da varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, bir \u015feyler d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebildiklerini daha iyi kavramaya ba\u015flarlar. \u00c7evrelerinde neler oldu\u011funa daha \u00e7ok dikkat ederler, daha detayl\u0131 bir \u015fekilde g\u00f6zlemlemeye ba\u015flarlar.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fakat \u00e7ocuklar, ama\u00e7lar\u0131na ula\u015fabilmek i\u00e7in bilerek <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">yalan s\u00f6ylemeye<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> 7-8 ya\u015flar\u0131nda ba\u015flarlar. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bu ya\u015fta insanlar\u0131n beklentilerine, sosyal normlara, kabul g\u00f6rme kavram\u0131na daha iyi a\u015fina olmu\u015f olurlar. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yalan s\u00f6ylemek<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, onlar i\u00e7in \u201cBunu yapabiliyorum, ben de buraday\u0131m\u201d demenin bir yolu olarak g\u00f6r\u00fclebilir.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mesela \u00e7ocuk, arkada\u015flar\u0131 aras\u0131nda hangi oyuncaklara sahip olduklar\u0131n\u0131 konu\u015furken belki de arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 k\u0131skan\u0131p onun olmayan oyuncaklardan bahsedebilir. Bu do\u011fru olmasa bile bu <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">yalan\u0131 s\u00f6yleyerek<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> sosyal olarak kabul g\u00f6rmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fabilirler.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bununla birlikte her \u00e7ocu\u011fun sosyal kabul g\u00f6rmek i\u00e7in ayn\u0131 y\u00f6nteme ba\u015fvurmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 da belirtmeliyiz. G\u00fclizar \u015eehito\u011flu\u2019na g\u00f6re d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fck veya pazarl\u0131k, anla\u015fma, manip\u00fclasyon gibi y\u00f6ntemler kullanan \u00e7ocuklar da bulunabilir. Ki\u015filik \u00f6zellikleri, yeti\u015ftirilme \u015fekli, ev ortam\u0131 gibi bir\u00e7ok fakt\u00f6r bunun belirlenmesinde etkilidir.<\/span><\/p>\n        <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n\n  <section class=\"section blogImage\" id=\"blogImage-block_cdc426e69f93051ce9bdc499f2fe9b3c\">\n    <div class=\"blogImage__wrapper\" >\n        <div class=\"blogImage__image\">\n            <a href=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed2-7.jpeg\" class=\"glightbox\">\n                <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed2-7.jpeg\" alt=\"\u00c7evrimi\u00e7i \u0130ngilizce dersinde \u00e7ocuk, Novakid \u00e7ocuklar i\u00e7in \u00e7evrimi\u00e7i okul\" class=\"blogImage__imageItem\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed2-7-300x156.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed2-7-768x400.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed2-7.jpeg 960w\" >\n                <div class=\"glightbox__zoom\">\n                    <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/themes\/novakid\/public\/img\/icons\/search.svg\" alt=\"Zoom icon\" class=\"style-svg\">\n                <\/div>\n            <\/a>\n        <\/div>\n            <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n\n  <section class=\"section blogHeadingText\" id=\"blogHeadingText-block_45c83e41a6d20df2d64a56786001d708\">\n    <div class=\"blogHeadingText__wrapper\" >\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__heading\">\n            <h2 class=\"blogHeadingText__headingItem\" data-blog-heading data-section-id=\"blogHeadingText-block_45c83e41a6d20df2d64a56786001d708\">\n                Novakid\u2019le tan\u0131\u015f\u0131n!            <\/h2>\n        <\/div>\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__content\">\n            <p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">E\u011fer i\u00e7eri\u011fimizi be\u011fendiyseniz blog kategorimizde \u00e7ocuk geli\u015fimi ve \u0130ngilizce e\u011fitimiyle ilgili di\u011fer yaz\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131za da g\u00f6z atman\u0131z\u0131 \u00f6neririz. 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