{"id":2358,"date":"2023-05-05T19:57:18","date_gmt":"2023-05-05T16:57:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/?p=2358"},"modified":"2023-09-28T10:55:44","modified_gmt":"2023-09-28T07:55:44","slug":"ergenligin-sorunlari-ve-cozumleri-ebeveyn-rehberi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/ergenligin-sorunlari-ve-cozumleri-ebeveyn-rehberi\/","title":{"rendered":"Ebeveynler ergenlik d\u00f6nemindeki davran\u0131\u015flara kar\u015f\u0131 ne yapmal\u0131?"},"content":{"rendered":"  <section class=\"section blogHeader\" id=\"blogHeader-block_827b00f94f013a92834978f7c72b2f91\">\n      <div class=\"blogHeader__wrapper\">\n                              <div class=\"blogHeader__image\">\n              <a href=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed-1-1.png\" class=\"glightbox\">\n                <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed-1-1.png\" alt=\"Ergenli\u011fin Sorunlar\u0131 ve \u00c7\u00f6z\u00fcmleri, gen\u00e7ler, ill\u00fcstrasyon\" class=\"blogHeader__imageItem\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed-1-1-300x180.png 300w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed-1-1-768x460.png 768w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed-1-1.png 1024w\" style=\"width:100%; 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Ergenlerden nas\u0131l davran\u0131\u015flar beklemelisiniz? <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ergenlik d\u00f6nemi davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131na<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> kar\u015f\u0131 nas\u0131l davran\u0131lmal\u0131?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Gelin b\u00fct\u00fcn bu sorular\u0131n cevab\u0131n\u0131 <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Novakid\u2019de<\/span><\/a> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">psikolog <\/span><b>Irina Mlodik<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2019in yorumlar\u0131ndan da yararlanarak \u00f6\u011frenelim!<\/span><\/p>\n        <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n\n  <section class=\"section blogHeadingText\" id=\"blogHeadingText-block_7c8232f59e908c73e70b66f77999ed00\">\n    <div class=\"blogHeadingText__wrapper\" >\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__heading\">\n            <h2 class=\"blogHeadingText__headingItem\" data-blog-heading data-section-id=\"blogHeadingText-block_7c8232f59e908c73e70b66f77999ed00\">\n                Ergenlik d\u00f6nemi davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n sebepleri neler?            <\/h2>\n        <\/div>\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__content\">\n            <p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ergen \u00e7ocu\u011funuza kar\u015f\u0131 nas\u0131l bir yakla\u015f\u0131m izleyece\u011finize karar vermeden \u00f6nce onun davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n ard\u0131ndaki sebepleri anlamal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ergenlikte ortaya \u00e7\u0131kan davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n sebebini, \u00e7ocu\u011fun i\u00e7erisinde bulundu\u011fu psikolojik duruma ba\u011flayabiliriz. Bu durumun i\u00e7erisindeki bir ergen, kendisine \u00e7ocuk gibi yakla\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 kabul etmiyor ve kendini bir yeti\u015fkin olarak kabul ettirmeyi hedefliyor. Bu sebeple bir \u00e7ocu\u011fa kar\u015f\u0131 uygulad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z yakla\u015f\u0131mla art\u0131k kendinizi dinletemiyorsunuz. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ergenlikte g\u00f6r\u00fclen ruhsal de\u011fi\u015fimler<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirmenizi gerektiriyor.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocuklar\u0131 yeti\u015ftirirken uyumlu ve itaatk\u00e2r olduklar\u0131n\u0131 rahatl\u0131kla g\u00f6zlemleyebilirsiniz. Fakat 13-15 ya\u015f aral\u0131\u011f\u0131na gelince \u00e7ocu\u011funuza o kadar kolay bir \u015fekilde s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc dinletemezsiniz.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/programs\/education_6\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">6-7 ya\u015f\u0131nda<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> bir \u00e7ocuktan herhangi bir \u015fey isterseniz, \u00e7ocuk i\u00e7in a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 uzak bir istek de\u011filse bunu yerine getirecektir. Fakat ergenlik d\u00f6nemindeki \u00e7ocuk, yapmas\u0131n\u0131 istedi\u011finiz \u015feyin \u00f6nemli ve faydal\u0131 oldu\u011funu anlasa bile bunu protesto etme ihtiyac\u0131 duyacakt\u0131r. \u0130taatk\u00e2r olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6stermek isteyecektir.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ergenlik d\u00f6nemindeki \u00e7ocuk, bu arzuyu farkl\u0131 \u015fekillerde d\u0131\u015fa vurabilir. Mant\u0131kl\u0131 veya mant\u0131ks\u0131z herhangi bir iste\u011fimize kar\u015f\u0131 ilk yapaca\u011f\u0131 \u015fey onu reddetmektir. \u00d6rne\u011fin \u00e7ocuktan di\u015fini f\u0131r\u00e7alamas\u0131n\u0131 bile isteseniz \u00f6nce hay\u0131r diyecek, iste\u011finizi daha sonra yerine getirecektir. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ergenlik d\u00f6neminde b\u00f6yle davran\u0131\u015flar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> son derece do\u011fald\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ergenler neden ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak istemez?<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ergenlik d\u00f6neminde ortaya \u00e7\u0131kan bu ruhsal de\u011fi\u015fimlerle<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> birlikte \u00e7ocuktan ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 istemek de olduk\u00e7a zor bir h\u00e2le gelir. 16 ya\u015f\u0131nda bir \u00e7ocukla konu\u015furken bu durum hafiflese de 13-14 ya\u015flar\u0131nda bir \u00e7ocu\u011fa ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fman\u0131n \u00f6nemini anlatmak olduk\u00e7a zorlay\u0131c\u0131d\u0131r.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc o ya\u015flarda bir \u00e7ocuk, daha \u00e7ok kendini tan\u0131mak ve topluma kabul ettirmekle u\u011fra\u015fmak ister. Bunun i\u00e7in gereken \u015fey de ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaktan ziyade sosyalle\u015fmek, arkada\u015flar\u0131yla veya kar\u015f\u0131 cinsle daha \u00e7ok vakit ge\u00e7irmektir. Ergenin i\u00e7inde bulundu\u011fu hormon f\u0131rt\u0131nas\u0131 da bu durumu k\u00f6r\u00fckler.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">K\u0131sacas\u0131 ergenin kendine belirledi\u011fi psikolojik hedefler aras\u0131nda <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/ders-calismayi-sevdirmenin-yollari-ebeveynler-ne-yapmali\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> bir \u00f6ncelik de\u011fildir, \u00e7ocuk do\u011fal olarak kendini derse y\u00f6nlendirmez. Ama ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak zorundad\u0131r. \u0130\u015fte bu durum da ebeveynleri ak\u0131\u015f\u0131n tersine do\u011fru k\u00fcrek \u00e7ekmek zorunda b\u0131rak\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bu durumun i\u00e7erisinde olan ebeveynlerin anlamas\u0131 gereken en \u00f6nemli \u015feylerden bir tanesi, \u00e7ocu\u011fun sahip oldu\u011fu bu g\u00fcd\u00fclerin do\u011fal oldu\u011funu anlamakt\u0131r. Yani \u00e7ocu\u011fun ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak istememesi, ebeveynlerine kar\u015f\u0131 gelmek i\u00e7in de\u011fil, kendi i\u00e7erisinde bulundu\u011fu do\u011fal psikolojik durumun do\u011frudan bir sonucudur.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bunu anlayarak bu zorlu d\u00f6nemde gereksiz endi\u015felere kap\u0131lmaktan kendinizi kurtarabilir ve \u00e7ocu\u011funuza kar\u015f\u0131 daha sakin bir \u015fekilde yakla\u015fabilirsiniz.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Peki bu sakinlik tam olarak nas\u0131l olmal\u0131? Ergen \u00e7ocuklara kar\u015f\u0131 nas\u0131l davranmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z?<\/span><\/p>\n        <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n\n\n\n  <section class=\"section blogHeadingText\" id=\"blogHeadingText-block_0187e3eecd3250b031f6e50c0a61e274\">\n    <div class=\"blogHeadingText__wrapper\" >\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__heading\">\n            <h2 class=\"blogHeadingText__headingItem\" data-blog-heading data-section-id=\"blogHeadingText-block_0187e3eecd3250b031f6e50c0a61e274\">\n                Ergenlikteki davran\u0131\u015flara kar\u015f\u0131 ebeveynler nas\u0131l davranmal\u0131?            <\/h2>\n        <\/div>\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__content\">\n            <p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ergenlik d\u00f6nemindeki \u00e7ocuklara kar\u015f\u0131 nas\u0131l davranaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6zebilmek olduk\u00e7a zor bir i\u015f, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc ergenler \u00e7ocuk gibi davranmalar\u0131na ra\u011fmen yeti\u015fkin muamelesi g\u00f6rmek isteyebiliyorlar.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bu durum da olduk\u00e7a do\u011fal, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc ergenler n\u00f6ropsikolojik olarak kendilerini iyi kontrol edebilecek seviyeye hen\u00fcz gelemiyorlar. \u00d6z kontrol\u00fc sa\u011flayan frontal loblar h\u00e2l\u00e2 geli\u015fim d\u00f6neminde oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in ergenler bu konuda yeti\u015fkinlerin bekledi\u011fi performans\u0131 sergilemekte zorlanabiliyorlar.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ayn\u0131 durumu \u00e7ocuklarda da g\u00f6zlemlememiz m\u00fcmk\u00fcn fakat ergenlerde bu daha \u00e7ok g\u00f6ze bat\u0131yor, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00f6z kontrol eksikli\u011fine ek olarak bir de <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ergenlik d\u00f6nemi sorunlar\u0131<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, hormon f\u0131rt\u0131nalar\u0131, \u00e7alkant\u0131l\u0131 duygu durumu ve itaatsizlik e\u011filimi giriyor i\u015fin i\u00e7ine.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tamam, o zaman nas\u0131l orta yolu bulaca\u011f\u0131z?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bu noktada psikolog Irina Mlodik\u2019e g\u00f6re yapman\u0131z gereken \u015fey \u00e7ocukla pazarl\u0131k yap\u0131p ona da se\u00e7im hakk\u0131 sunman\u0131z. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc daha \u00f6nce s\u00f6yledi\u011fimiz gibi, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocuklar rahat\u00e7a s\u00f6z dinledi\u011fi i\u00e7in bu konuda sorun ya\u015fam\u0131yorduk. Ergenlik d\u00f6neminde ise \u00e7ocuk \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck istiyor, ebeveynlerinin boyunduru\u011fundan \u00e7\u0131kmak istiyor, fakat bu da tam anlam\u0131yla m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fil.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla ebeveynler olarak \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun i\u00e7erisindeki yeti\u015fkini ortaya \u00e7\u0131karmal\u0131, desteklemelisiniz. Diyelim ki \u00e7ocu\u011funuzu ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya ikna etmek istiyorsunuz. B\u00f6yle bir durumda \u00f6ncelikle onun isteklerini (ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmamak, d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kmak, oyun oynamak) anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 belirtmeniz gerekiyor.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cO\u011flum, ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 \u00e7ok istemedi\u011fini, arkada\u015flar\u0131nla d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kmak istedi\u011fini ben de biliyorum.\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sonras\u0131nda ise \u00e7ocu\u011funuza bir anla\u015fma teklif etmelisiniz. Bu k\u0131s\u0131m \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc verilen kararda \u00e7ocu\u011fun s\u00f6z\u00fc de ge\u00e7erse \u00e7ocuk verdi\u011fi s\u00f6z\u00fc tutmaya daha \u00e7ok e\u011filimli oluyor. Fakat karar\u0131 tamamen siz al\u0131p ergenlik d\u00f6nemindeki \u00e7ocu\u011fa dayat\u0131rsan\u0131z bu durumun ters tepme olas\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00e7ok daha y\u00fcksek.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cGel senle bir anla\u015fma yapal\u0131m. \u015eu saatte \u015fu kadar \u00e7al\u0131\u015f, sonra da arkada\u015flar\u0131nla vakit ge\u00e7irebilirsin. Olur mu?\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocu\u011funuz, bu tarz bir konu\u015fmayla sizle anla\u015ft\u0131ktan sonra da ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak istemeyebilir veya verdi\u011fi s\u00f6z\u00fc tam olarak yerine getirmeyebilir. B\u00f6yle bir durumda da sert \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p onu k\u00f6t\u00fc s\u00f6zlerle su\u00e7lamak yerine onla yap\u0131c\u0131 bir \u015fekilde konu\u015fmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. D\u00fczg\u00fcn bir dille kendi verdi\u011fi s\u00f6z\u00fc tutmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ona belirtmelisiniz.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Burada \u00e7ocu\u011funuza ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131rken dikkat etmeniz gereken bir di\u011fer nokta da bunun bir ihtiya\u00e7 oldu\u011funa dikkat \u00e7ekmek. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc daha \u00f6nce s\u00f6yledi\u011fimiz gibi, bir ergen i\u00e7in ho\u015fland\u0131\u011f\u0131 ki\u015finin ona nas\u0131l bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 veya arkada\u015flar\u0131 aras\u0131nda ne kadar pop\u00fcler oldu\u011fu, ders mevzular\u0131ndan daha ilgi \u00e7ekici. Ders, onun \u00f6nceli\u011fi de\u011fil.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bu sebeple \u00e7ocu\u011funuzn ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 ona k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocukken sundu\u011funuz gibi bir \u201ce\u011flence\u201d olarak de\u011fil, gelecekte kendisinin i\u015fine yarayacak bir \u201cihtiya\u00e7\u201d olarak anlamas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flamal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z.<\/span><\/p>\n        <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n\n  <section class=\"section blogImage\" id=\"blogImage-block_5e419a178b6e7ebbd4202511283066b6\">\n    <div class=\"blogImage__wrapper\" >\n        <div class=\"blogImage__image\">\n            <a href=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed.jpeg\" class=\"glightbox\">\n                <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed.jpeg\" alt=\"Bak\u0131m anne ve baba destek \u00fczg\u00fcn gen\u00e7 o\u011flu parkta bankta oturan, kriz\" class=\"blogImage__imageItem\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed-300x169.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed-1024x576.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed-768x432.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed-1536x864.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed-1080x608.jpeg 1080w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed.jpeg 1600w\" >\n                <div class=\"glightbox__zoom\">\n                    <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/themes\/novakid\/public\/img\/icons\/search.svg\" alt=\"Zoom icon\" class=\"style-svg\">\n                <\/div>\n            <\/a>\n        <\/div>\n            <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n\n  <section class=\"section blogHeadingText\" id=\"blogHeadingText-block_23dd9c9194e666ac58bf4a1e713fe98d\">\n    <div class=\"blogHeadingText__wrapper\" >\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__heading\">\n            <h2 class=\"blogHeadingText__headingItem\" data-blog-heading data-section-id=\"blogHeadingText-block_23dd9c9194e666ac58bf4a1e713fe98d\">\n                Ergenlik d\u00f6nemi sorunlar\u0131nda kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 g\u00fcvenin \u00f6nemi            <\/h2>\n        <\/div>\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__content\">\n            <p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Az \u00f6nce bahsetti\u011fimiz kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 anla\u015fma konusunda dikkat edilmesi gereken kavramlardan biri de ergen \u00e7ocukla ebeveyn aras\u0131ndaki kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 g\u00fcven. E\u011fer \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc dinlemesini istiyorsan\u0131z, hayat\u0131nda ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 herhangi bir sorunda veya akl\u0131na tak\u0131lan herhangi bir soruda size gelmesini istiyorsan\u0131z onun g\u00fcvenini kaybetmemelisiniz.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bu g\u00fcveni kaybetmek, \u00e7ocu\u011funuz ergenlik d\u00f6nemindeyken olduk\u00e7a kolay bir \u015fekilde ger\u00e7ekle\u015febilir. \u00c7ocu\u011funuz sizden bir \u015feyler saklayabilir, mesela ilk sigaras\u0131n\u0131. Ergenlik d\u00f6neminde bu tarz davran\u0131\u015flara denk gelebilirsiniz, fakat bunu engellemek i\u00e7in \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun \u00f6zel alan\u0131na girmemelisiniz. E\u011fer \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun \u00e7antas\u0131n\u0131, ceplerini kontrol ederseniz, sosyal medya hesaplar\u0131na veya telefonuna bakmay\u0131 denerseniz bu g\u00fcveni k\u0131rm\u0131\u015f olursunuz.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bu noktada yapman\u0131z gereken \u015fey \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun hayat\u0131na do\u011frudan dahil olmak de\u011fil, ona sizinle her konuda korkmadan konu\u015fabilece\u011fini anlatmakt\u0131r. Bir \u015feyler yanl\u0131\u015f gidiyorsa, bir hata yapt\u0131ysa bunu sizinle korkmadan payla\u015fabilmeli. Bu g\u00fcveni sa\u011flamak i\u00e7in \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun \u00f6zel alan\u0131na sayg\u0131l\u0131 olmal\u0131 ve ona kar\u015f\u0131 sakin bir yakla\u015f\u0131m izlemelisiniz.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">E\u011fer bunu sa\u011flayabilirseniz \u00e7ocu\u011funuz \u00f6nemli bir durumda ne id\u00fc\u011f\u00fc belli olmayan arkada\u015f gruplar\u0131na de\u011fil, size dan\u0131\u015facakt\u0131r.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">K\u0131sacas\u0131 zor bir durumda i\u00e7inizdeki panikle, korkuyla \u00e7ocu\u011funuza sert davranmay\u0131 se\u00e7meyin. Ona sizden ba\u015fka yard\u0131m edebilecek biri yok, bunun i\u00e7in sakin kalarak \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun gelecekteki durumlarda sizden ka\u00e7mas\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6nlemelisiniz.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Peki bu g\u00fcven bir kez k\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131ysa ne yap\u0131lmal\u0131, \u00e7ocukla nas\u0131l konu\u015fulmal\u0131?<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocu\u011fa daha \u00f6nce k\u00f6t\u00fc davranan ebeveynler ne yapmal\u0131?<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ergenli\u011fin psikolojik sorunlar\u0131yla<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> bo\u011fu\u015fan \u00e7ocu\u011funuza daha \u00f6nceki konu\u015fmalar\u0131n\u0131zda gerekti\u011fi gibi davranmam\u0131\u015f veya onun \u201cg\u00fcvenini k\u0131rm\u0131\u015f\u201d olabilirsiniz. Bu durumda onla oturup konu\u015furken neden b\u00f6yle davrand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 anlat\u0131p samimi bir \u00f6z\u00fcr dilemelisiniz.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ergenler, b\u00f6yle durumlarda genelde ebeveynlerinin ba\u011f\u0131r\u0131\u015f\u0131na, \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131\u015f\u0131na ve k\u00f6t\u00fc davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131na maruz kald\u0131klar\u0131 i\u00e7in bunun ard\u0131nda yatanlar\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeyebiliyorlar. Fakat asl\u0131nda ebeveynler, do\u011fru olmasa da \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na yard\u0131m edebilmek i\u00e7in b\u00f6yle bir yakla\u015f\u0131m izliyor.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bu ger\u00e7e\u011fi ergenlik d\u00f6nemindeki \u00e7ocu\u011funuza anlatman\u0131z ili\u015fkiniz a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan olduk\u00e7a faydal\u0131 olacakt\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ergenler b\u00fct\u00fcn o sinirin alt\u0131nda yatan motivasyonun, sevginin fark\u0131nda olmuyorlar. Sadece sizin endi\u015fenizin \u015fiddetli d\u0131\u015fa vurumuna \u015fahit olduklar\u0131 i\u00e7in davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n sebebini anlayam\u0131yorlar.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z hatay\u0131 ger\u00e7ekten de sevginizden dolay\u0131 yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 anlatt\u0131ktan sonra \u00e7ocu\u011funuzdan \u00f6z\u00fcr dilemelisiniz. Tabii ki \u00f6z\u00fcrle birlikte \u00e7ocu\u011funuza yapmas\u0131 gerekeni de anlatmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z &#8211; <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cSen bize bir \u015fey s\u00f6ylemeyince panikliyoruz, endi\u015feleniyoruz.\u201d<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> gibi.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">K\u0131sacas\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011funuza h\u00e2l\u00e2 onun ebeveynleri oldu\u011funu samimi bir \u015fekilde hissettirmelisiniz. Yapt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n sevgiden dolay\u0131 oldu\u011funu anlamal\u0131, fakat siz de yapt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n hata oldu\u011funu kabul ederek \u00e7ocu\u011funuzdan bu konuda \u00f6z\u00fcr dilemelisiniz.<\/span><\/p>\n        <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n\n  <section class=\"section blogImage\" id=\"blogImage-block_5d4691091135445c11d99099ef157eac\">\n    <div class=\"blogImage__wrapper\" >\n        <div class=\"blogImage__image\">\n            <a href=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed2-1.jpeg\" class=\"glightbox\">\n                <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed2-1.jpeg\" alt=\"anne ve gen\u00e7 k\u0131z\u0131 sahip bir tart\u0131\u015fma\" class=\"blogImage__imageItem\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed2-1-300x206.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed2-1-1024x704.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed2-1-768x528.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed2-1-1536x1056.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed2-1-1080x743.jpeg 1080w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed2-1.jpeg 1600w\" >\n                <div class=\"glightbox__zoom\">\n                    <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/themes\/novakid\/public\/img\/icons\/search.svg\" alt=\"Zoom icon\" class=\"style-svg\">\n                <\/div>\n            <\/a>\n        <\/div>\n            <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n\n  <section class=\"section blogHeadingText\" id=\"blogHeadingText-block_9e393e71a99bb7fb861057b05a7591e0\">\n    <div class=\"blogHeadingText__wrapper\" >\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__heading\">\n            <h2 class=\"blogHeadingText__headingItem\" data-blog-heading data-section-id=\"blogHeadingText-block_9e393e71a99bb7fb861057b05a7591e0\">\n                K\u00f6t\u00fc ortamlarda vakit ge\u00e7iren bir ergene nas\u0131l davran\u0131lmal\u0131?            <\/h2>\n        <\/div>\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__content\">\n            <p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ergenlikte g\u00f6r\u00fclen ruhsal de\u011fi\u015fimlerle<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> birlikte \u00e7ocuklar kendilerini k\u00f6t\u00fc bir arkada\u015f grubunun i\u00e7inde bulabilir. Ailesiyle bir \u015fekilde ileti\u015fimde olan \u00e7ocuklar \u00e7ok k\u00f6t\u00fc ortamlara d\u00fc\u015fmese de ailevi problemleri olan \u00e7ocuklar kendilerini bir yere ait hissetme arzusuyla bu tarz ortamlara girebiliyorlar.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">B\u00f6yle bir durumda ebeveyn olarak araya girip \u00e7ocu\u011funuzla konu\u015fmak \u00f6nemli. Fakat \u00e7ocuk art\u0131k 14-15 ya\u015flar\u0131na geldiyse bu konuda yapabilece\u011finiz \u00e7ok fazla \u015fey bulunmuyor. <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cOnlar k\u00f6t\u00fc, onlarla arkada\u015f olma\u201d<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> demek sadece \u00e7ocu\u011fun daha fazla asile\u015fmesine sebep oluyor.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bu sebeple Irina Mlodik\u2019e g\u00f6re yapman\u0131z gereken \u015fey \u00e7ocu\u011fun arkada\u015f grubu hakk\u0131nda bilgi sahibi olmak ve onla bol bol sohbet etmek. O arkada\u015flar\u0131yla neler yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, o arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n ileride neler yapaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011fa sorup d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmesini sa\u011flayabilirsiniz.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">E\u011fer m\u00fcmk\u00fcnse \u00e7ocu\u011fun arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 eve \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rmas\u0131n\u0131 isteyebilir, ili\u015fkilerini g\u00f6zlemleyebilirsiniz. \u00d6rne\u011fin \u00e7ocu\u011funuza k\u00f6t\u00fc davran\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun manip\u00fcle edildi\u011fini vb. fark ederseniz bu konuyu onla konu\u015fabilirsiniz. \u00c7ocu\u011funuz, b\u00f6yle durumlar\u0131n fark\u0131nda olmayabilir.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocu\u011fun iyi insanlarla k\u00f6t\u00fc insanlar\u0131 ay\u0131rt etmesi, insan ili\u015fkilerini \u00f6\u011frenmesi \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli. Bu sebeple \u00e7ocu\u011funuza bu konularda konu\u015farak yard\u0131m etmelisiniz. \u00c7evresindeki ki\u015filerin nas\u0131l insanlar oldu\u011funu onla konu\u015fa konu\u015fa, onu uyara uyara kendi ba\u015f\u0131na anlamas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flamal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Di\u011fer yolu izlerseniz sadece daha iyi yalan s\u00f6yleyen bir \u00e7ocuk yeti\u015ftirmi\u015f olursunuz.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n        <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n\n  <section class=\"section blogImage\" id=\"blogImage-block_493e74e627fd567e0b467898975b6f02\">\n    <div class=\"blogImage__wrapper\" >\n        <div class=\"blogImage__image\">\n            <a href=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed3-2.jpeg\" class=\"glightbox\">\n                <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed3-2.jpeg\" alt=\"Arkada\u015flar Hipster Gen\u00e7 Arkada\u015flar Kavram\u0131\" class=\"blogImage__imageItem\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed3-2-300x198.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed3-2-1024x676.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed3-2-768x507.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed3-2-1536x1015.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed3-2-1080x713.jpeg 1080w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/unnamed3-2.jpeg 1600w\" >\n                <div class=\"glightbox__zoom\">\n                    <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/blog\/wp-content\/themes\/novakid\/public\/img\/icons\/search.svg\" alt=\"Zoom icon\" class=\"style-svg\">\n                <\/div>\n            <\/a>\n        <\/div>\n            <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n\n  <section class=\"section blogHeadingText\" id=\"blogHeadingText-block_924aa729ef9833b2c5e613152409893e\">\n    <div class=\"blogHeadingText__wrapper\" >\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__heading\">\n            <h2 class=\"blogHeadingText__headingItem\" data-blog-heading data-section-id=\"blogHeadingText-block_924aa729ef9833b2c5e613152409893e\">\n                Novakid\u2019le tan\u0131\u015f\u0131n!            <\/h2>\n        <\/div>\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__content\">\n            <p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u0130\u00e7eri\u011fimizden faydaland\u0131ysan\u0131z blog k\u0131sm\u0131ndan \u00e7ocuk geli\u015fimiyle ilgili di\u011fer yaz\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131za da g\u00f6z atmay\u0131 unutmay\u0131n. \u00c7ocu\u011funuzun \u0130ngilizcesini geli\u015ftirmek istiyorsan\u0131z da uzman e\u011fitmenlerimizle verdi\u011fimiz e\u011flenceli <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/tr\/programs\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">canl\u0131 \u0130ngilizce<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> derslerimize g\u00f6z at\u0131n &#8211; \u00fcstelik ilk deneme dersi tamamen \u00fccretsiz!<\/span><\/p>\n        <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2362,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"inline_featured_image":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[46],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2358","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-cocuk-yetistirme"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.3 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Ergenli\u011fin Sorunlar\u0131 ve \u00c7\u00f6z\u00fcmleri: Ebeveyn Rehberi<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Ergenlikte g\u00f6r\u00fclen ruhsal de\u011fi\u015fimler hem \u00e7ocuklar hem de ebeveynler i\u00e7in zorlay\u0131c\u0131. 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