{"id":2411,"date":"2023-11-28T14:03:38","date_gmt":"2023-11-28T14:03:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/ro\/blog\/?p=2411"},"modified":"2023-11-28T14:03:39","modified_gmt":"2023-11-28T14:03:39","slug":"de-ce-mint-copiii-iata-tot-ce-trebuie-sa-stii-ca-parinte-despre-minciuna","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/ro\/blog\/de-ce-mint-copiii-iata-tot-ce-trebuie-sa-stii-ca-parinte-despre-minciuna\/","title":{"rendered":"De ce mint copiii? Iat\u0103 tot ce trebuie s\u0103 \u0219tii ca p\u0103rinte despre minciun\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"  <section class=\"section blogHeader\" id=\"blogHeader-block_afef1c5584c6bdc51265344b971e023c\">\n      <div class=\"blogHeader__wrapper\">\n                              <div class=\"blogHeader__image\">\n              <a href=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/ro\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/RO.png\" class=\"glightbox\">\n                <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/ro\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/RO.png\" alt=\"De ce mint copiii? Iat\u0103 tot ce trebuie s\u0103 \u0219tii ca p\u0103rinte despre minciun\u0103\" class=\"blogHeader__imageItem\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/ro\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/RO-300x180.png 300w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/ro\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/RO-768x460.png 768w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/ro\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/RO.png 1024w\" style=\"width:100%; aspect-ratio:1024\/613;\"> \n              <\/a>\n          <\/div>\n          \n      <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n      <section class=\"blogContentTable\" data-toc-section>\n        <input type=\"checkbox\" id=\"blogTocToggle\" class=\"blogContentTable__toggle\" \/>\n        <label for=\"blogTocToggle\" class=\"blogContentTable__header\">\n            <span class=\"blogContentTable__heading\">\n                Cuprins            <\/span>\n            <span class=\"blogContentTable__arrow\"><\/span>\n        <\/label>\n        <div class=\"blogContentTable__wrapper\">\n            <div class=\"blogContentTable__heading blogContentTable__heading--sidebar\">\n                Cuprins            <\/div>\n            <ol class=\"blogContentTable__list\">\n                                    <li>\n                        <span class=\"toc-item\">Ce este minciuna?<\/span>\n                    <\/li>\n                                    <li>\n                        <span class=\"toc-item\">De ce mint copiii?<\/span>\n                    <\/li>\n                                    <li>\n                        <span class=\"toc-item\">Cauzele minciunii<\/span>\n                    <\/li>\n                                    <li>\n                        <span class=\"toc-item\">Cum s\u0103 previi minciuna la copii?<\/span>\n                    <\/li>\n                                    <li>\n                        <span class=\"toc-item\">Cum ar trebui s\u0103 te por\u021bi cu un copil care minte?<\/span>\n                    <\/li>\n                                    <li>\n                        <span class=\"toc-item\">Mi-am prins copilul min\u021bind, ce ar trebui s\u0103 fac?<\/span>\n                    <\/li>\n                            <\/ol>\n        <\/div>\n    <\/section>\n\n    <script>\n        \/\/ Use DOMContentLoaded for faster TOC initialization\n        document.addEventListener('DOMContentLoaded', () => {\n            const tocSection = document.querySelector('[data-toc-section]');\n            if (!tocSection) return;\n\n            const headings = document.querySelectorAll('.blogHeadingText');\n            const tableContainer = tocSection.querySelector('.blogContentTable__list');\n            if (!tableContainer) return;\n\n            \/\/ Clear the container\n            tableContainer.innerHTML = '';\n\n            \/\/ Count valid headings with h2\n            let validHeadingsCount = 0;\n\n            \/\/ For each heading, create an item in the table of contents\n            headings.forEach((heading, index) => {\n                const h2 = heading.querySelector('h2');\n                if (!h2) return;\n\n                validHeadingsCount++;\n                const title = h2.textContent.trim();\n                const itemHtml = `<li><a href=\"#${heading.id}\">${title}<\/a><\/li>`;\n                tableContainer.innerHTML += itemHtml;\n            });\n\n            \/\/ Hide TOC if no valid headings found\n            if (validHeadingsCount === 0) {\n                tocSection.style.display = 'none';\n            }\n            \n            \/\/ Dispatch custom event to notify that TOC is ready\n            document.dispatchEvent(new CustomEvent('tocReady'));\n        });\n    <\/script>\n  \n\n\n  <section class=\"section blogText\" id=\"blogText-block_6a6184cb83e0b85112885b596de1f21c\">\n    <div class=\"blogText__wrapper\">\n        <div class=\"blogText__content\">\n            <p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Una dintre cele mai complexe probleme cu care te confrun\u021bi atunci c\u00e2nd \u00eencerci s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegi comportamentul copilului t\u0103u este obiceiul de <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a min\u021bi<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. A\u0219adar, <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">de ce mint copiii<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, este acest lucru normal \u0219i, cel mai important, cum po\u021bi preveni <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">minciuna<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> la copii?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Novakid, \u0219coala care ofer\u0103 <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/ro\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">cursuri de limba englez\u0103 online<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, a discutat despre acest subiect cu psihologul G\u00fclizar \u015eehito\u011flu, pentru a oferi cu ajutorul specialistului cele mai bune r\u0103spunsuri pentru p\u0103rin\u021bii afla\u021bi \u00een fa\u021ba unei asemenea situa\u021bii.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n        <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n\n  <section class=\"section blogHeadingText\" id=\"blogHeadingText-block_038add264fcf70fd679b6b0c23b043ff\">\n    <div class=\"blogHeadingText__wrapper\" >\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__heading\">\n            <h2 class=\"blogHeadingText__headingItem\" data-blog-heading data-section-id=\"blogHeadingText-block_038add264fcf70fd679b6b0c23b043ff\">\n                Ce este minciuna?            <\/h2>\n        <\/div>\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__content\">\n            <p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A min\u021bi<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u00eenseamn\u0103 a povesti despre o situa\u021bie sau un eveniment neadev\u0103rat ca \u0219i cum ar fi real. De obicei, <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">minciuna<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> este folosit\u0103 pentru a ascunde ceva, pentru a induce \u00een eroare pe al\u021bii sau pentru un c\u00e2\u0219tig personal. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Minciuna<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> este v\u0103zut\u0103 ca fiind contrar\u0103 valorilor morale \u0219i etice, a\u0219a c\u0103 \u00een general nu este bine v\u0103zut\u0103 \u00een societate.<\/span><\/p>\n        <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n\n  <section class=\"section blogHeadingText\" id=\"blogHeadingText-block_a64049f456b789beeb1d64c89c2ab1c9\">\n    <div class=\"blogHeadingText__wrapper\" >\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__heading\">\n            <h2 class=\"blogHeadingText__headingItem\" data-blog-heading data-section-id=\"blogHeadingText-block_a64049f456b789beeb1d64c89c2ab1c9\">\n                De ce mint copiii?            <\/h2>\n        <\/div>\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__content\">\n            <p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Unul dintre cele mai importante lucruri pe care trebuie s\u0103 le faci este s\u0103 \u0219tii <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">cauzele minciunii<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Astfel, po\u021bi reduce sau chiar pune cap\u0103t obiceiului de <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a min\u021bi<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> al copilului t\u0103u.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Psihologul G\u00fclizar \u015eehito\u011flu define\u0219te perioada <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">minciunilor<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> ca o faz\u0103 prin care trec copiii. Potrivit expertului, exist\u0103 unele motive \u00een spatele <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">minciunii<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> copiilor, cum ar fi evitarea consecin\u021belor nedorite \u0219i dorin\u021ba de aprobare. C\u00e2nd copilul vede c\u0103 <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">minciuna<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> este o strategie eficient\u0103 de comunicare, \u00eencepe s\u0103-\u0219i formeze obiceiul de <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a min\u021bi<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n        <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n\n  <section class=\"section blogHeadingText\" id=\"blogHeadingText-block_d7452470fdcfa212407b555871cc077b\">\n    <div class=\"blogHeadingText__wrapper\" >\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__heading\">\n            <h2 class=\"blogHeadingText__headingItem\" data-blog-heading data-section-id=\"blogHeadingText-block_d7452470fdcfa212407b555871cc077b\">\n                Cauzele minciunii            <\/h2>\n        <\/div>\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__content\">\n            <p><b>Atingerea unor obiective<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Copiii pot evita s\u0103-\u0219i fac\u0103 temele min\u021bind, de exemplu, pentru c\u0103 vor s\u0103 se joace mai mult. \u00cen astfel de cazuri, copilul are o motiva\u021bie specific\u0103 pentru <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a min\u021bi<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Evitarea unor consecin\u021be nedorite<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">De exemplu, dac\u0103 cel mic a spart un pahar \u00een cas\u0103 \u0219i vrea s\u0103 evite s\u0103 fie certat, poate <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">min\u021bi<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> c\u0103 nu el a f\u0103cut-o. Pentru a preveni acest tip de cauz\u0103, \u00ee\u021bi recomand\u0103m s\u0103 te ab\u021bii de la certarea \u0219i pedepsirea copilului t\u0103u \u0219i s\u0103 apreciezi comportamentul s\u0103u sincer.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Aprobarea social\u0103<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dup\u0103 ce un copil \u00eencepe s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleag\u0103 mai bine interac\u021biunile sociale, poate sim\u021bi nevoia <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">de a min\u021bi<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> pentru a fi acceptat de mediul s\u0103u \u0219i pentru a fi v\u0103zut &#8222;cool&#8221;. Aceast\u0103 situa\u021bie nu este identic\u0103 pentru fiecare copil \u00een parte.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Frica de a fi expus<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Una dintre cele mai mari <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">cauze ale minciunii<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, \u00een special \u00een adolescen\u021b\u0103, este temerea de a vorbi deschis despre unele lucruri. Ne \u00eent\u00e2lnim cu aceast\u0103 situa\u021bie \u00een special la copiii familiilor care urmeaz\u0103 un <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/ro\/blog\/stilurile-parentale-si-efectele-lor-asupra-copilului\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">stil parental mai autoritar<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. De\u0219i p\u0103rin\u021bii stric\u021bi nu par s\u0103 critice copilul, acesta s-ar putea teme s\u0103 fie sincer cu ei.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Dorin\u021ba de autonomie\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Motivul pentru care copiii p\u0103rin\u021bilor autoritari mint poate s\u0103 nu fie doar teama de reac\u021bia p\u0103rin\u021bilor lor, ci \u0219i dorin\u021ba lor de a fi autonomi. P\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103, autonomia este un sentiment de care fiecare om, \u00een special adolescen\u021bii, are nevoie.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dac\u0103 p\u0103rin\u021bii pun mult\u0103 presiune pe copil, acesta ar putea sim\u021bi nevoia de <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a min\u021bi<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> pentru a sc\u0103pa, a fi o persoan\u0103 diferit\u0103 de ace\u0219tia \u0219i a-\u0219i stabili propria personalitate.<\/span><\/p>\n        <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n\n  <section class=\"section blogImage\" id=\"blogImage-block_530bc5961752363f41955f1ced803892\">\n    <div class=\"blogImage__wrapper\" >\n        <div class=\"blogImage__image\">\n            <a href=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/ro\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/1024x613_kid-is-lying.png\" class=\"glightbox\">\n                <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/ro\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/1024x613_kid-is-lying.png\" alt=\"Mama ceart\u0103 copilul pentru c\u0103 a min\u021bit.\" class=\"blogImage__imageItem\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/ro\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/1024x613_kid-is-lying-300x180.png 300w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/ro\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/1024x613_kid-is-lying-768x460.png 768w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/ro\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/1024x613_kid-is-lying.png 1024w\" >\n                <div class=\"glightbox__zoom\">\n                    <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/ro\/blog\/wp-content\/themes\/novakid\/public\/img\/icons\/search.svg\" alt=\"Zoom icon\" class=\"style-svg\">\n                <\/div>\n            <\/a>\n        <\/div>\n            <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n\n  <section class=\"section blogHeadingText\" id=\"blogHeadingText-block_185cdbfa315358ae9ce213570767b616\">\n    <div class=\"blogHeadingText__wrapper\" >\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__heading\">\n            <h2 class=\"blogHeadingText__headingItem\" data-blog-heading data-section-id=\"blogHeadingText-block_185cdbfa315358ae9ce213570767b616\">\n                Cum s\u0103 previi minciuna la copii?            <\/h2>\n        <\/div>\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__content\">\n            <p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pentru a preveni <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">minciuna<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, trebuie s\u0103 \u00eei oferi copilului t\u0103u un mediu \u00een care onestitatea este aprobat\u0103 \u0219i <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">minciuna<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> nu este v\u0103zut\u0103 ca fiind adecvat\u0103. Astfel, copilul se poate str\u0103dui s\u0103 fie sincer f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 simt\u0103 c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 mint\u0103 pentru a fi acceptat.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Un alt aspect important este exemplul p\u0103rin\u021bilor. Dac\u0103 un copil \u00ee\u0219i prinde mama min\u021bind, s-ar putea s\u0103 nu cread\u0103 c\u0103 acest lucru este at\u00e2t de r\u0103u. A\u0219adar, c\u00e2nd form\u0103m obiceiuri, ca p\u0103rin\u021bi, trebuie s\u0103 d\u0103m un exemplu nu doar prin cuvintele noastre, ci mai ales prin ac\u021biuni.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">S\u0103 presupunem c\u0103 cel mic sparge un pahar \u0219i \u00ee\u021bi spune c\u0103 a f\u0103cut o astfel de gre\u0219eal\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 dea vina pe pisic\u0103. \u00cen acest caz, ar trebui s\u0103 recompensezi comportamentul onest al copilului t\u0103u spun\u00e2ndu-i c\u0103 e\u0219ti m\u00e2ndru\/m\u00e2ndr\u0103 de el.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Suntem oameni, cu to\u021bii putem face gre\u0219eli, a\u0219a c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegem motiva\u021bia din spatele <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">minciunii<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u0219i s\u0103 empatiz\u0103m cu copilul nostru. Copilul, pe de alt\u0103 parte, tinde s\u0103 repete un comportament care este recompensat \u0219i apreciat. Dac\u0103 cel mic simte c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 fie perfect, crede c\u0103 nu are dreptul s\u0103 gre\u0219easc\u0103 \u00een via\u021b\u0103, va g\u0103si scuza potrivit\u0103 pentru <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a min\u021bi<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Am spus c\u0103 minciuna ar trebui privit\u0103 cu dezaprobare, dar nu te l\u0103sa \u00een\u0219elat\/\u00een\u0219elat\u0103. \u201ePedepsirea\u201d copilului pentru c\u0103 <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a min\u021bit<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> nu este o metod\u0103 corect\u0103. Pedeapsa nu \u00eei explic\u0103 copilului de ce comportamentul s\u0103u nu este ok.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Psihologul G\u00fclizar \u015eehito\u011flu spune:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201eC\u00e2nd pedepsim o persoan\u0103, acesta ar putea g\u00e2ndi, &#8216;Bine, am pl\u0103tit gre\u0219eala cu aceast\u0103 pedeaps\u0103. Dar care au fost consecin\u021bele acestui lucru, de ce nu ar fi trebuit s\u0103 fac asta?&#8217;.&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cu alte cuvinte, copilul vede aceast\u0103 pedeaps\u0103 nu ca o oportunitate de \u00eenv\u0103\u021bare, ci ca un pre\u021b pentru comportamentul s\u0103u gre\u0219it. Acest lucru nu va afecta schimb\u0103rile de comportament viitoare \u0219i poate cauza copilului s\u0103 continue s\u0103 mint\u0103<\/span><\/p>\n        <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n\n  <section class=\"section blogImage\" id=\"blogImage-block_cc8ceaede7485b9b660888af1c2ad000\">\n    <div class=\"blogImage__wrapper\" >\n        <div class=\"blogImage__image\">\n            <a href=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/ro\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/Copil-care-minte-ara\u0306tat-cu-degetul.png\" class=\"glightbox\">\n                <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/ro\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/Copil-care-minte-ara\u0306tat-cu-degetul.png\" alt=\"Copil care minte ara\u0306tat cu degetul.\" class=\"blogImage__imageItem\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/ro\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/Copil-care-minte-ara\u0306tat-cu-degetul-300x180.png 300w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/ro\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/Copil-care-minte-ara\u0306tat-cu-degetul-768x460.png 768w, https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/ro\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/Copil-care-minte-ara\u0306tat-cu-degetul.png 1024w\" >\n                <div class=\"glightbox__zoom\">\n                    <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/ro\/blog\/wp-content\/themes\/novakid\/public\/img\/icons\/search.svg\" alt=\"Zoom icon\" class=\"style-svg\">\n                <\/div>\n            <\/a>\n        <\/div>\n            <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n\n  <section class=\"section blogHeadingText\" id=\"blogHeadingText-block_ac534436805a1be348105c93d11bc9e9\">\n    <div class=\"blogHeadingText__wrapper\" >\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__heading\">\n            <h2 class=\"blogHeadingText__headingItem\" data-blog-heading data-section-id=\"blogHeadingText-block_ac534436805a1be348105c93d11bc9e9\">\n                Cum ar trebui s\u0103 te por\u021bi cu un copil care minte?            <\/h2>\n        <\/div>\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__content\">\n            <p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">S\u0103 presupunem c\u0103 fiul sau fiica ta a dob\u00e2ndit deja obiceiul de <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a min\u021bi<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> de la cei din jurul s\u0103u. \u00cen aceast\u0103 situa\u021bie e foarte important s\u0103 vorbe\u0219ti deschis \u0219i clar cu copilul t\u0103u despre aceast\u0103 problem\u0103.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Explic\u0103-i copilului t\u0103u de ce este r\u0103u s\u0103 <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">min\u021bi<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, cum poate duce la consecin\u021be nedorite acest lucru \u0219i chiar distruge rela\u021biile interumane. \u00cen plus, ar trebui s\u0103-l \u00eencurajezi s\u0103 fie onest, cu argumente \u00een acest sens.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Un alt lucru important este s\u0103 nu \u201eetichetezi\u201d copilul. Mul\u021bi p\u0103rin\u021bi, c\u00e2nd se confrunt\u0103 cu o astfel de situa\u021bie, se enerveaz\u0103 \u0219i \u00ee\u0219i eticheteaz\u0103 copiii ca \u201emincino\u0219i\u201d. De fapt, aceasta este o gre\u0219eal\u0103 uria\u0219\u0103.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nu e bine s\u0103 \u00eei dai copilului t\u0103u o etichet\u0103 care s\u0103-i defineasc\u0103 \u00eentreaga personalitate, ci s\u0103 \u00eencerci s\u0103 corectezi obiceiul lui de <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a min\u021bi<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> lucr\u00e2nd doar pe acel comportament. Pentru c\u0103 <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">minciuna<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> nu este \u00eentreaga personalitate, ci doar o mic\u0103 parte din ea.<\/span><\/p>\n        <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n\n  <section class=\"section blogHeadingText\" id=\"blogHeadingText-block_444195203f7c19b1063d22f7c1460c21\">\n    <div class=\"blogHeadingText__wrapper\" >\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__heading\">\n            <h2 class=\"blogHeadingText__headingItem\" data-blog-heading data-section-id=\"blogHeadingText-block_444195203f7c19b1063d22f7c1460c21\">\n                Mi-am prins copilul min\u021bind, ce ar trebui s\u0103 fac?            <\/h2>\n        <\/div>\n        <div class=\"blogHeadingText__content\">\n            <p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">S\u0103 presupunem c\u0103 fiul sau fiica ta \u00ee\u021bi spune c\u0103 \u0219i-a f\u0103cut temele la <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.novakidschool.com\/ro\/english-teachers\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">medita\u021bii la englez\u0103<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, dar realizezi c\u0103 acest lucru nu este de fapt adev\u0103rat. Prin aceast\u0103 <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">minciun\u0103<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, copilul t\u0103u \u0219i-a dat timp s\u0103 se joace, s\u0103 se uite pe tablet\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 vizioneze videoclipuri.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Primul lucru este s\u0103-i ar\u0103\u021bi copilului c\u0103 e\u0219ti con\u0219tient\/\u0103 de <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">minciun\u0103<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. E esen\u021bial s\u0103-\u021bi controlezi furia \u00eenainte de a vorbi cu copilul \u0219i s\u0103 te asiguri nu te vei enerva. Mai t\u00e2rziu, vorbi\u021bi din nou \u0219i\u00a0 explici clar care sunt a\u0219tept\u0103rile tale \u0219i \u00eei dai exemplu de consecin\u021be pe care le poate tr\u0103i la \u0219coal\u0103 sau \u00een societate dac\u0103 va continua a\u0219a. Dac\u0103 cel mic totu\u0219i nu se opre\u0219te din <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a min\u021bi<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, p\u0103rintele e bine s\u0103 lase consecin\u021bele s\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mple.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Potrivit psihologului G\u00fclizar \u015eehito\u011flu, \u00eenv\u0103\u021barea \u00een acest mod este foarte valoroas\u0103.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201eMul\u021bi p\u0103rin\u021bi \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 protejeze copiii de consecin\u021be, mai ales sociale. E normal, nimic de criticat, to\u021bi vrem ce este mai bine pentru copilul nostru. Dar nu putem s\u0103-i \u00eempiedic\u0103m s\u0103 se confrunte cu consecin\u021be negative \u00een via\u021b\u0103. Trebuie s\u0103 facem fa\u021b\u0103 acestora.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Copiii \u00eencep s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleag\u0103 <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">minciuna<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> de pe la 4-6 ani, iar de la 7-8 ani mint deliberat. Cu toate acestea, nu fiecare copil folose\u0219te aceea\u0219i metod\u0103 pentru a c\u00e2\u0219tiga acceptarea.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Conform psihologului, exist\u0103 \u0219i copii care folosesc metode cum ar fi onestitatea sau negocierea, acordul \u0219i manipularea. Factori precum tr\u0103s\u0103turile de personalitate, educa\u021bia \u0219i mediul de acas\u0103 sunt eficiente \u00een determinarea acestora.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tu ce metode folose\u0219ti pentru a \u00eencuraja sinceritatea copilului t\u0103u \u0219i a descuraja <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">minciuna<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">? 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